Men: if your girlfriend or a girl that you are interested in has slept with a number of men in the past, how many is too many? What number would make you reconsider your feelings about said woman?
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ANSWERS: 7
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I don`t think you should get hung up on numbers.. I don`t know how many my husbands had and he doesnt know mine. and we are happily married, so take it easy even if she has had sex with 200 she probably needed to work some things out . If she is whith you now then thats what you should consentrate aboute. Not the past. So forget numbers and just get to know each other.
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Honestly one would make me reconsider. I'm waiting til marriage and I would want her to do the same. I'm willing to forgive a past but she would honestly have to regret doing it.
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Just from the question - Id make her get tested. There is that who infidelity thing also I might explore. At some point I would want to be sure that she is actually a kinky type rather then just a bore who likes doing missionary only again and again.
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I don't think the number is as important as the context. If someone slept with 3 guys, but they were all married to friends of hers, or they were all brothers, or she was dating one guy and slept with the other 2 by cheating on him, that's worse than being in 20 commited relationships and sleeping with those 20 or 10 out of the 20 guys.
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Hi! I think it all depends on how you feel about the woman. If you don't really care for her, then the number won't bother you. The problem arises when you are in love with somone. If you find out that person has had a lot of partners and done everything on earth with those partners then to be honest, It does take the specialness out of your relationship. After all, anything you now do together has been done b4. For example my ex had had only 1 guy b4 me. So sex was more special. With my present girlfriend she has had 20 partners & has done everything under the sun with them. For me i find this really troublesome. I'm not an old fashion person & i believe in modern values but i just can't help not like the fact that the girl i may marry has done so much nasty stuff with so many. I trully love her but it will always bug me. This is not a politically correct answer but it is an honest one!!!
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It dosent really matter as long as you know she dosent do it any more.
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My bf and I know each other's number and we know that we are only interested in each other so the number doesn't really matter.
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