Would you tell a new s/o the details of your past relationships?
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gracescotland
ANSWERS: 12
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their over.
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no i wouldn't, it's in hte past and it has nothing to do with the future, unless you have a kid with some one else, there's no need to let them know. If you are goint to telll them, then you definitely don't do it in the beginning of the relationship, do it gradually over time, but from experience, i don't really care nor do i want to hear about the exs
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Yes, because some details of past relationships affect you deeply, and will take a long time if ever to loosen their grip on you. Also, it's nice to be able to be so open with a new s/o that you can divulge in past experiences and strengthen your bond still. It's good to understand where the person came from.
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at an appropriate time... I would expect to know sexual history before going exclusive, however giving my history is a different story... they would probably know it before the first date since my wife has been my only partner.
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No i think it will not be that necessary coz eveyone got a BAD past! ; )
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I have... As they are rather serious and should be things that were known ahead of time.
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If want to know, I will.
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If they asked yes. And most of them have asked.
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I would if she asked me about something.:)
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If they ask you, I wouldn’t tell. Because you probably never hear the end of it.
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No, nor would I ask about his. I don't need the bloody details to think about. Our relationship would be based strictly on how he treated me (I would, however, take some clues from how he felt about his mother).
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Yes. I have found that to be a useful exercise. Especially when the previous relationships have caused hurt. It's good to know what has happened in your partners past, it allows you to act with sensitivity, it helps you understand how they tick :)
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