What would you do, (if you could) to the "other" person, if you found out your Significant Other was cheating with them?
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CoachMJ
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Nothing. I would not want to see, or speak to this person. Nothing good would come out of talking to them. I would want to do my best to put them out of my mind. This person didn't put a gun to my SO's head and force him to cheat. The cheating would be entirely the fault of my SO. It doesn't matter who the other person was. Once I found out he was cheating, my relationship with my SO would be over. I wouldn't even speak with HIM any more than was necessary. Then, I would take my broken heart and start over.
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Nothing, unless she had a husband and family of her own. Then I would inform her husband, as he has a right to know. My husband's affair would be his responsibility and the issue would rest between us only.
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I would at least call the person or go see them and let them know that I know. Then I would walk away or hang up. Would just want her to know that I know all about it and I know who she is. Then I would recite the following prayer: "Lord give me patience, wisdom, courage, and love in all things dealing with my husband. From the messes he makes, to projects that don't get done, to the little lies he tells. And lord also give me understanding, because if I pray for strength I just might beat him!"
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As painful as it might be, your SO just gave you an opportunity to part ways and find a faithful, loving partner with whom you can fall into "brand new" love with. (You know, the kind with the queasy butterfly stomach, stuttering, staring and tingly feeling.) To really answer your question, I would do nothing to the "other". The "other" just got into a relationship with your SO that is doomed to fail. I can't imagine a relationship started with dishonesty can do anything else. They will end up punishing each other for you.
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Nothing. I would probably avoid them though.
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Nothing , I would do what i had to do to my partner and that would be, throw him out. I do not believe in second chances betrayal of trust once broken can never be repaired. IMO
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Give them a crabs, so my so called partner would get it. Then I'd watch them jump around while trying not to itch. :-)
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I see no reason to do anything to him... he made her happy, and I love her... by that logic, I should be happy for her and happy for him, right..?
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Ah yes I was I am in this position now and as much as I dislike the immature selfish bitch....revenge against this person will only will hold you back in needing to forgive and emotionally heal yourself. The best thing to do is know for yourself there is almost no other act on earth more selfish and disrespectful than being the "other person" and they, not you must live with that outlook on life. Karma's a bitch and trust me it will get them back harder and better than you ever could! Let itrun it's course. You know what is important, you know what that person is really all about. Don't stoop to their level and take revenge.
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