I loved my step dad util I found out he was sleeping with my best friend who was a year younger then me when I was 12. Now I'm 19 with 3 sister he's still not gone, My mum is still a mess how do I help her get better so she can get ride of him?

My best friend at the time was a drug dealer... *I didnt know* and she wouldn't testify because she willing done it because she like him, he was sleeping with her for drugs.

My family have tryed to get rid of him, we got my mum help but she turned on my family. But my mum was very prtie and thin and now shes a mess because of him. Me and my sisters though if we got her in shape she might feel beter bout herself.

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by Princess Garnet on March 6th, 2009

Your eleven year old best friend was a drug dealer?
That still doesn't change the fact its still highly illegal and sick for an adult to have sex with an 11-year-old - "consensual" or not. Not to mention he was giving or taking drugs from a kid. If this is all true and you're not making this stuff up, I suggest you worry less about your Mom's weight and more about your stepfather's behavior. Chances are, he hasn't changed his ways. You shouldn't be asking this on Answerbag, you should be asking the police or a social worker!

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by the big boo on March 6th, 2009

sorry but i ant do nothing bout him. We have got the police, they didnt care they just told us to wirte down everything he dose. We've got social workers out hes not to go near my littlist sister without my mum saying so. I'm thinking if I make her better I get rid of him. belive me we have tryed. My whole family tryed.

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by Princess Garnet on March 6th, 2009

If your Mom hasn't left him by now, it won't happen. Important thing is to protect your sisters - because your Mom isn't. Can they come live with you?

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by the big boo on March 6th, 2009

TBH hes ok with her, and shes a very happy little girl. she bossed him about. She cant live with me because I'm with my nan and she too old to take on a 7 year old. But me and my sisters are plainning to tae her on as soon as we move out.

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by Princess Garnet on March 6th, 2009

done nothing was done

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by Princess Garnet on March 6th, 2009

I dont live there I've live with my nan my whole life, but my little sisters are there and my cat, and it dont really stop you from worrying.

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by Princess Garnet on March 6th, 2009

If your sisters are still living at home, you have a responsibility to them to bring in the authorities. Sounds like your Mom isn't going to do the right thing by them. Please read my other comment as well.

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by the big boo on March 6th, 2009

2 of them are 17 and 18 so it's up to them what they do. And I am no way in hell getting my lttle sister get taken away. She don't know whats going on she upset or anything but I will not let her get taken away.

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by Princess Garnet on March 6th, 2009