I just wanted to elaborate a bit more on this. He has spanked me before for pleasure so it won't be awkward. He did tell me that it will hurt a lot so I'm nervous naturally. There still will be a "safety" word where he would stop but I won't use it. He's not going to make me bleed or anything like that! He is going to use a paddle, a wooden hairbrush, his hands (of course), and a thick strap. He hasn't specified how many yet. Has anyone else been spanked as an adult for dicipline and did it work? I'm scared that it will hurt but if it gets me to stop my foolishness then I'll be very happy.

Yes. To answer your elaborated question. I have been spanked by my lady for my foolish and irresponsilbe activites. I have before and will again willingly climb over her knee for any punishment she feels I need or deserve. However mostly, she is spanked by me. She happily submits to me and to any punishment I believe she deserves. In our modern society we have the freedom to do so many things and NOT be responsible to anyone... ever. Instead, my lady and I choose to be responsible to each other for our attitudes, respect and responsibilities. So... The way we exercise our freedom... is to willingly choose to be submissive to one another as needed. So, we practice what could be called "Mutual" Domestic Discipline. And... Yes, each of us have experienced an AAAC spanking fron each other. An AAAC (Avoid At All Cost) Spanking that has made us think over ALL of our individual actions and how they affect us as a couple. The most painful spankings come when one of us may endanger or distance our replationship.

SHE NEEDS TO TAKE OUT A LOAN & NOT REPAY IT! It seemed like an urban legend -- but it's confirmed by a 1979 article in the L.A. Times. A Pennsylvania banker punished more than 50 customers who were late on their loan payments by...spanking them in his office. In the tiny town of Baden, Pennsylvania (population 4,377), bank manager David Rhodes admitted that he'd spanked all 50 of the delinquent customers, bragging that it was effective because "I never had any trouble with them afterward." The best part of the story? He was later convicted for "misappropriating" $88,000 in bank money -- and was sent to prison for three years. The reason? "[H]e was forced to make eight unrecorded loans totaling $88,268 when six of those who were spanked threatened to report him to his superiors." Rhodes had worked at the bank for 14 years, averaging about 1,500 loans a year. But most of the customers he spanked were men -- not middle-aged men, but younger -- and one of them threatened to report it as a homosexual activity. At the trial, Rhodes' attorney defensively presented polygraph results and psychiatric tests, saying later that "all undertones of homosexuality were disproved." (Rhodes was married and had two teenaged children.) "Although he was aware the loans were illegal," the AP reported, "Rhodes said he didn't turn himself in because he didn't think the authorities would believe his story." Jet magazine called him the "Banker Spanker," and provided one more crucial detail about his case. "He said he was glad when bank auditors caught up to the scheme." And the L.A. Times' site provides the ultimate epitaph, offering the "all-time great headline" which appeared in another newspaper. Ex-banker, Spanker, Winds Up in Tanker