trust and rules

Yes as long as everyone (partners and lovers) knows what is going on. Set rules and stick by them. No means no, not "unless they don't find out". Don't ever be afraid to ask a quetion and stick by your guns. If you are not comfortable with something tell the other person. If they don't agree talk it out. Sometimes things don't work out sometimes they do. I am in a comitted, honest, and open relationship. He sleeps with whom ever he wants and same for me. Sometimes we have threesoms some times it is just me and a lover. Sex can be freeing and fun for everyone as long as everyone is informed. If you think it is wrong I have a question example for you. Say a man and a woman have been together for 20+ years. The man is no longer interested in having sex at all. The woman still wants sex. What should they do? Break up? Have an affair? OR Talk it out and see if both are willing to try an open relationship? Open Relationships are risky for the fact that you are bringing more then one person in the bedroom who is not commited to both partners. Get checked and stay informed. P.S. Larry if you and your wife are ever in Mihcigan look me up!!!!!!