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  • Im dating someone now who is in the airforce. He chose to join while we were dating, and im supporting in 100%. Honestly, it is difficult. Being away from him for so long and long periods at a time. But i really love him, and im going to wait for him. Because its something that makes him happy. So just when there gone, write alot of letters, make them feel loved even though they're not there. In the end it will be all worth it, i know this much. goodluck.
  • My Hubby was in the Para's when we first met that was 14 years ago...so i would say it was damn good :D
  • I'm dating a sailor...the time apart can be hard to deal with, but he's worth it and most of my friends here are military spouses so I have plenty of support and encouragement.
  • my fiance and i are both military, he is currently in iaraq and i am currently not. it can be very difficult, but it is also very rewarding
  • well i was resentle dating someone in the army he was stationed in new york and he was going to come to cali to visit me and he did the first 2 weeks were awsome and the 3rd week was hell for me he told me he had developed feelings for some one else and he still loved me . we didnt talk 4 about 3 days i gave him space to think the stuff threw and in those 3 days i find out he was cheating on me with the other girl and i broke down and told him it was over now he still sais he loves me but hes with the other girl hes dating her now but he says he willnever forget about me or the feelings he has for me this was all 1 month and a half ago... im still getting threw its very stressing..
  • Yes, i have. I dated someone in the Army for 5 years before he cheated on me a month before he was going to deploy to Iraq for the 2nd time. After that i dated someone in the Marines for about a year. I think that it is really hard to always understand where they are coming from esp. if they had been deployed before. It does make things hard sometimes when they shut you out and do not want to talk about things that are bothering them. Both of my ex's have served 3 terms in Iraq and have been in faliing relationships ever since. I think that it is just their personal reasonings for it to be failing all the time. I am currently dating someone who is going to college to just enlist at an Officer in the Air Force and things are going amazing with us. I wish you the best and no matter what just be as supportive as you can. Realize that it takes a very special and heroic person to join the service. Be the loving caring girlfriend that understands how stressful their job really is and do not take one day with them for granted.

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