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First, ask him how he is feeling about the relationship and Second, explain to him how you are drawing away. Come to a solution with him to either move back together or just break it off. (Sounds like your trial marriage didn't work and your trial divorce is.)
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Pay attention to your feelings, they don't lie. You separated because the relationship wasn't nurturing you enough, this has now become clearer. Your 'emptiness' when you see him tells me that this man isn't the one for you. Be kind to yourself and him and end it before it becomes just a drawn-out habit with no real affection or respect.
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Find an online friend you can talk too. :) Happened to me also.Luv E
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Another answer...serious one...think only of your son...ask him how he feels....been throught that one to.
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Be patient, gentle, and honest.
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You could try spending more than one day a week with him and see if that spark comes back. If it doesn't, then you know what to do.
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Why'd you guys do that? Sounds pretty lame to me. Long distance relationships simply do not work (except in romance novels) so a forced separation one isn't likely, either.
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honestly, the only reliable "tip" on you can get on matters of the heart is....follow your heart!
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You've split from the living arrangement because the family unit didn't seem as perfect as you thought it would. Our children don't always love them as much as we do, and it happens like that very often. Maybe seeing him so little could be part of why you're feeling that way, and maybe your child's feelings are playing a part on your feelings as well. Sometimes you have to carve out a path for yourself, and do what makes you happy. <You have to be happy too.> Your child's feelings are important too, but sometimes they're just based on a stranger invading what they believe is the perfect family unit, and it's not dad. Counseling for your son can help. Getting him involved in sports and activities can too. Having your s/o and him do activities together can help too. Go along with them until your son is comfortable with the situation. I think by you continuing to try seeing this guy says that you do care, and it's worth trying to fix. Often times children aren't happy with anyone we choose, but they do come around when they see how happy mom is and other benefits to having him there.
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Find a new S/O. If your feelings are already fading, there's little hope for a long term bond.
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Why are your feelings for him fading?
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Let's see here, from another question, that would be the son who wants to be a Furry? And has a long distance "relationship" with someone online that he has never met in person? My advise is that if you WANT to reconnect get some E(MDMA), like a gram of REAL crystal, divide it into 6 parts and make 3 evenings of it. Or get an ad on ALT.COM, you may not find love there but you will be entertained.
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sounds like it's over to me. Time for both of you to move on.
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It sounds to me like it is over and the best thing for both of you is to make it final. I know it sounds harsh and hard to deal with, but having been through a long term relationship and then the breakup it's not easy and sometimes hearing it from someone else helps you make that decision. Surround yourself with friends and I'm sure someone will be there as a shoulder to cry on, if not then here is a long distance one available. Better to go out and do something for yourself and find a new special someone than to keep holding onto the past for to long and regretting it. I'm sorry to hear that your relationship has broken down, but unfortunately it happens and it doesn't get any easier. Be strong and feel free to chat anytime....xoxo
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sadly it's seems like it is time to move on if you only see each other once a week you should be excited when you see him not empty good luck
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