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  • If you really loved him then why did you cheat on him even if it was just physical?
  • tell him that u weren't in the right mind and that u werent thinking straight
  • Well he must be so hurt. Think how you would feel if had done it to you? However, somebody said to me once that I always think there is hope where there is none!! If you truly love your guy, live a very open life leave your mail around, your mobile phone everything that you could possibly use to be in touch with the other guy. In time, and with plenty of love and patience he may get to trust you again. Just imagine trust is a very thin thread that takes time to build and only a second to break. Actions speak louder than words, it is how you live your life from now on which will give you a chance. My ex husband cheated and kept trusting him and he did it again and again, eventually after 25 years I left him. Best thing I did. I spent 6 years alone and then married my current husband. I was so insecure but being with the man I have now, I am finally cured of all the insecurities my first husband made me have.
  • What has happened cannot be changed, what you and your bf do from here on is what will tell the tale. Ask his forgiveness and explain the circumstances that is was only a physical attraction and nothing more. Do not beat yourself up over this; you are not the first and for sure not the last. Polyamoury can often be the answer to keeping the relationship alive. It eliminates the possiblilites of cheating but it isn't for everyone. Swinging also removes this stigma of cheating; again this is not for everyone. Study these two lifestyles and decide if it might not be an alternative for you and your boyfriend. Will it be easy to get over this? No, it often is not. It takes time complete forgiveness and love. If you and he want your relationship to thrive and continue than you both must work at it. Don't make promises that neither of you may be able to live up to. True love can overcome most things.
  • Time apart will tell alot... Do you really need each other? Words at a time like this mean nothing. You both need to think more about the relationship you had or thought you had.
  • as simple as ... YOU FUCKED UP BIG TIME! if you really love your bf you shouldnt done that in the 1st place girl. your lucky he didnt leave you, 1 time is all it takes for most of us.

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