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  • Each person has their own way of dealing with uncomfortable situations. Having to be around your ex is an uncomfortable experience for both you AND your boyfriend. His way of dealing seems to be to openly demonstrate that you are too strong a person to be affected by your ex and that your life is better now without him...a show of power and authority over your ex. Both are ways of dealing with the situation...and while one or two nice confrontation with your ex can help (especially if he doesn't seem to be leaving you alone) yours seems like a much better one over all. Don't think of it as a "right and a wrong way"...but a "your way and a my way". Deal with the situation how you would like, and make it clear to your boyfriend that that is exactly what you are going to do while respecting that he sees it differently. :)

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