Why is it that someone's feelings get hurt after they have agreed to be friends with benefits?
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because they get emotionally involved. being friends with added benefits can only end up with both or one of the people getting hurt
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I think its because we have feelings and emotions. (haha well most of us anyway haha) Unlike other species out bodies and our mind/souls are made to connect on a different level when we engage in sexual activity with another human. Just my opinion.
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Because one of the parties usually end up more emotionally invested in the arrangement. Plus, often the agreement gets made because one of the parties wants more and is hoping that it will grow into a bf/gf relationship.
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they love each other so much to the point that they were afraid of getting a commitment to each other and ruin it all?..
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Because then it is expected and in the long run someone will be ready to move on - It's just not solid -
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In reality, there are always emotions involved! so feelihgs are there even with friends. so when something changes for one, feelings are going to get hurt.
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At some point in time, unless they are either perpetual singles or just plain cheats - the 'benefits' will need to be taken away. Plus the human psyche isn't really wired that way - it just doesn't work and shouldn't really be tried - hence so many breakups are unpleasant - we don't like or handle loss very well.
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People interpret sex differently, some just see sex as a one night thing with no emotions, others see it (most females) as giving away apart of you, so they get all emotional and hold on to their friend (with benefits). It also can be bothersome when you have to accept the fact that your friend will be going on dates with other people and could be sleeping around also, not just you being the only one. It takes alot of self confidence and strength to be in this type of relationship, so the person doesn't become easy or cheap or think sex can win a lover..cuz it doesnt, and the truth is we value sex and the last thing we want to do is degrade what it means to us..
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