ANSWERS: 5
  • The fact that you had his child is what is really important here. Seems youve been shacking up for awhile, so what difference does it make? If he chose not to marry you after the baby was born, there is a good chance he never will. I am not sure what withholding sex is going to accomplish, sure is too late for that. Do what is best for that baby, NOT him. The baby is the innocent one here, and time you accept the fact he does not want to get married again
  • no matter what he does or doesnt want to do that baby of yours comes first.. you have a child that will always love you.. you dont need a guy in your life just to feel love. sorry!
  • Wow, what a tough situation. It might seem like having that little piece of paper will settle your nerves, but it sounds like he has just been through the wringer... Why not focus your attention on that little baby for the time being and let the relationship play itself out. Witholding sex is not going to make your boyfriend marry you any faster. Just be a good mom and encourage him to be a good father. There are no guarantees whether or not you ever marry, but you can vow to be the best parent possible to your child.
  • What is the big deal about marriage, I was married and it made absolutely no difference to my relationship. Now I am divorced (which created a lot more animosity than needed) I have met someone else and she was married before, now neither of us see the importance of getting married
  • Marriage is such a stress these days. You do not HAVE to get married, that is a choice you make to bond your souls, or whatever. If the love is there, marriage isn't absolutely needed. That's just another stress in our lives we don't need. Everyone is in such a rush to get married, have kids, get a job, get a luxury car, get a house... None of that is necessary. As long as you're alive and happy, don't stress yourself out. Marriage is like updating that year old wal-mart purse to a designer purse you'll pay 10x more for, and use for about a month because styles change.

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