How do you stop hating and forgive someone who physically and mentally abused you and your family all your life, who is no longer alive?
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you just have to let all the negative feeling go..You can trust that that person is getting what they deserve.. karma what goes around comes around, i believe all of it only because i have lived it. havent you ever experienced it? like when u do something really good for someone, then out of nowhere someone does something really nice for you? well that family member had to deal with upper forces which are even stronger than karma in death now that they are gone. <hugs> hun you will get through this,, im here for you
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You really have to look at it as an illness. They are mentally ill. Anyone who would do such a thing can not be right. It is not healthy for you to continue to hate because it eats you up instead of healing you. In order for you to heal you may have to write him a letter. Yes I know he is dead. You will not mail it. You just tell him how you feel about what he did to you and then burn it or tear it up. You will heal over time. I know. He died a very unhappy, mierable person who let mental illness take over. Good Luck to you and some times counseling helps too. :)
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I don't think forgive means forget. You can just think about how hate continues the harm they started, and why give them that power over you, even in death?
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