ANSWERS: 11
  • If after 70 years he is still with you and only you I think he has already committed to you. Sometimes committment comes easy but saying it outloud is a problem. My 15 year relationship is with a 'not getting married kind of guy' but we couldn't be happier or more in tune as a family.
  • I wouldn't be getting involved with someone that wasn't interested in marriage in begin with. No, I'm not waiting 70 years because humans don't have that long a life past that
  • In my experience, men who "aren't ready to commit" simply aren't ready to commit to you. It's no use waiting -- even a day.
  • if you love them it shouldnt matter if you wait forever because one ring should not change the way you love each other, however if its really important to you and he knows that and truly loves you he would do it for you, if he wouldnt do it for you maybe hes not worth having after all.
  • Good lord. In 70 years I'll still be lucky to be alive. Everyone who is on this site that SHOULD be on this site, will be minimally in their 80s in 70 years. Which, unfortunately, is past the average human life span in most countries. That being said, I want my life to be filled with love and commitment. I am not going to wait until I die to find it.
  • LOL - Are you asking us if it would be too much to wait for someone for 70 human years? If he's not ready - What he's trying to say is - whoever he is with isn't the one he plans on settling down with. Without coming right out and saying it. Yet another reason people should be more out right and tell it like it is so others wouldn't have questions such as this.
  • 2 years max id wait
  • Oh my goodness... ATTENTION everybody - this was a sarcastic question: Don't worry, I'm not a lovesick teenage girl, this was just meant as a silly hypothetical. That's what happens if you don't check out the reference link! Wackiness ensues...
  • my wife was fine talking marriage but nearly had a panic attack when actualy doing something about it. I basicaly let her say "yes" or "no" but I would not let her say later. I joke that I had to drag her to the altar and she responds that she stopped dragging her feet when she reached the isle. the only reason I see to date exclusive is when you know you have found your life partner and there is no point delaying the inevitable.
  • Wait for them? What would be the point? It is good practice to not become involved in relationships where the 2 parties do not have the same goals in mind.

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