ANSWERS: 17
  • For a jerk who doesn't give a crap about your feelings sure its normal for that
  • Get a ring on his finger, he sounds like a GREAT catch.
  • your bf is obviously so up himself - how did you respond when he came out with this insulting stuff??
  • Is he/you quite young? If so, then it may just be a natural ting to look (and admit it!). Someone older might be more sophisticated/thoughtful and not tell you. Whenwe first get together with someone it's not always love at first sight and perhaps a little 'window-shopping' still goes on until we feel more committed. Sounds as if he feels comfortable enough with you to tell you the truth - is that such a bad thing? Bet he thinks you're gorgeous now? If not, then maybe you ought to do a comparitive exercise!? - and find someone who does?
  • I think it is not normal. Here is what I thought about: 1. It is probably normal for anyone to question the decision. You want him to take this decision seriously, right? Plus, your questions sounds like you are re-examining your choice. BUT: 2. The idea that he spent time eyeing up other women suggests a superficiality that may not endure a long time. Is his decision based on picking the prettiest doll in the store or someone who can be his soul mate for life? 3. The fact that he tells you that and the way he puts it is pretty odious. He seems to talk in terms of his making the right choice rather than talking about whether you are right for one another. It's your choice too, after all. 4. Raising the subject in this way suggests he does not have a lot of regard for your feelings. Bottom line. If your question means keep or dump, I would favor the dump.
  • you deserve better than him! don't settle for someone who would verbally abuse you that way...
  • Hell no… For the first 6 mo he should have been in awe of you. If he was having these feelings from the start then you deserve better. My advice to you would be to string him along for the next 6 mo while you find someone else and then tell him that you are just not into him.
  • It's normal for shallow men whose only requirement in a gf is that she is good looking. At least he's honest though right? No he's just an ass.
  • Some men just don't know how to differentiate what to put in the "TMI" file.
  • Omg, That is not normal... Thats just wrong!
  • First of all, why is he "admitting" this to you when he knows it's going to make you feel horrible? That's awful! I'm sure it is a normal thing for guys to do, looking at other girls and thinking they're pretty. But he must have kept thinking about it 6 months later. I just don't understand why he would tell you that in the first place. What's the point? Dump him!
  • What type of creep even told you this, much less did it? How does it even come up in conversation? "This is great soup. Hey, guess what? The first 6 months I knew you I thought you were a big mistake and I could do much better. Ain't that a hoot? Now I know that I am just as much of a low life as you. Pass the bread, please." Ditch the dork!
  • It is normal for a kid, not for a grown-up.
  • And why/how did this conversation arise? He's an idiot.
  • your bf sounds like the ideal mate....Drop kick this tool....
  • Lose the chicken dinner and find you a winner.
  • Wow. No one gives a second chance around here, do they? I'm not going to say "dump him". Though he behaved a little childishly in doing that, he stayed with you didn't he? I don't view that as any worse than getting cold feet the day of your wedding. Now, if he admits that he cheated on you, it's a different story.

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