sorry to tell you but he's moved on. He got sex like he wanted and he's gone. Let it go and learn from it. In love after 1 date? OK ..I guess. move on.

Guys won't repspect girls for anything more than sex if you put out after one date. Sorry. He probably just used you and moved on. =(

This is awful, but it sounds like he got what he wanted. Don't bother with him. If he gets in touch, make him work hard so you know if he's really worth it. I hope that's useful anyway

Sounds like he is scared of something. I would hope that there is no way you're going to be pregnant, right? Remember that boys don't mature as fast as girls, and that goes for what's going on in their head too. He may be confused and need someone to talk to. The two of you took a big step....I pray that you both know what you are doing.

One date, then sex, then he says he loves you....how old are you? You have had a one night stand.

You haven't said anything about your ages. Everybody here so far has immediately jumped on the "he used you" bandwagon. But there is another side nobody has considered. Way back when I was younger and dumber, I got involved in a sexual relationship with my first girlfriend. I was 18 at the time, she was 16. I had not been raised to believe pre-marital sex was right...and this caused me a LOT of internal problems. But because I thought I loved my girlfriend, and she pushed me into continuing, I kept the sexual relationship going. And it kept me twisted up inside. And I mean my guts were literally cramping up from the stress at times. The story goes on, but this part is what's important to my point here. I was doing something that was contrary to the core values and beliefs that I had been raised with. This was causing me a great deal of stress...and also cause a lot of stress between my girlfriend and I. She wanted to continue and I did not...so it became a "you don't love me" trap if I wanted to stop, and a "you just used me" trap if I wanted to leave. And didn't want to leave her because I DID love her. I just didn't want to continue the sex part. Her views were selfish in that she absolutely did NOT want to consider the stresses I was going through and why; only that if I did not want to continue a sexual relationship that it was my fault somehow that our relationship was suffering. I was perfectly happy and in love with her WITHOUT the sex and was more than willing to wait until I was ready for the responsibility. She was not. Your problem with your boyfriend may NOT be that he "used you to get what he wanted". It may just be that, like me, he is feeling the stresses due to having a sexual relationsip before HE is ready. Nine days is also an awefully short time for a relationship to turn so serious. This may also be unsettling to him. You two need to talk about this honestly and openly. If he's just not ready for a continuing sexual relationship, then you guys have to decide what to do about that. If you can't live with that, then you must move on. Conversely, if it does turn out that he "used you", then again you must decide what to do, and move on if you can't live with that. Talk about it, get it out in the open, and make up your mind what to do from there.

Somehow I think this question is a joke.

It sounds like he got what he wanted and is now giving you a hint. Just a word to the wise. They ALWAYS say they love you if they think it will get them sex.

One thing you need to do is.... not anything like this again. You went out on 1 date with him and had sex and now he ignoring you. Either he got what he was after all along or you showed him how easy you would give it up. Sometimes ..some... guys will play you...they will say what they know you want to hear so that you will have sex with them and then they move on, because they don't want a real relationship. Learn from this and really get to know someone before you ever "do the deed" again.

Congratulations! You've been duped. He used you. Get the "I'm in love with him" thing out of your head or he'll continue to do so. See it for what it is, not how you want to see it.

You are boyfriend and girlfriend but only went on one date and then had sex? And you dont see problem there? Also, no sex before marriage!

To put it bluntly, you got screwed over. Sounds like you fell victim to the classic "I'll tell her I love her to get into her pants" trick. He got what he wanted, and now he's done with you. Sorry that you got such a jerk, but hopefully this will teach you that one date isn't worth giving it up, nor does one date tell you whether or not you (or the other person) is in love.

You should find a mystery pill, ask what it is - in the middle of a homework question - and then call him and ask him if you are pregnant.

If you only went on one date, this is not your boyfriend. This is a guy you had a one night stand with. Move on and don't fall into bed so quickly from now on.