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It's a touchy thing for many guys, that their lady doesn't orgasm during intercourse. You could try encouraging him to help you orgasm before intercourse by other, equally fun methods (oral sex, masturbation, etc). As long as you get your jollies and he has a hand in it, it should satisfy him.
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He must realize that women do not always have an orgasm. It can be hormonal, or if you are super tired, or not in the mood. Men don't understand that for the most part, but assure him you are not alone and not to worry.
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Well I would encourage other ways he can get you to orgasm. Then I would also talk to him about when you are not having sex, and maybe even give him some statistics about the amount of women who cum every singe time they have sex. Not very many if any, and tell him it is a little to much pressure for him and you to have to be super awsome orgasm machines. It is not realistic that you should have to cum everytime, it is quite honestly to much pressure and it might even kill some of the fun of having sex. Good luck, It is sweet that he wats you to cum everytime just try to explain the reallity to him when he is not frantically trying to give you an orgasm.
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I understand that a woman sometimes do not or maybe even can not have an orgasm by intercourse, and it does affect some guys "ego" that their woman didn't have an orgasm while having intercourse. Thats why the male needs explore other ways to get their partner to orgasm. I'm sure your o.k. and satisfied with not having an organsm, but don't sell yourself short, you have to admit that when you do have an orgasm it is awsome, Right? I am one to explore with my partner and find out what she likes and what feels good to her along with a lengthy foreplay session, I usually have great luck in getting my partner to orgasm.
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I know that if I am not comfortable with a man or if we are not getting along outside the bedroom,It affects me in the bedroom,and I sometimes can not orgasm.I am not sure why you are not orgasming and I can see why this bothers him because it is basically the goal for him,and that is a good thing.Does this happen all the time/everytime or just once in awhile?Of course you say you are happy with sex without the big "0" because it is still fun,but I think that you should really try and open up more and find what it is that makes you go there.Even if you have to take matters into your own hands;)I am not sure how you can make him understand that you don't need an orgasm.I think you should make him understand what actually gives you an orgasm.He sounds willing,are you?
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fake it like the rest of us do lol
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I think the advice of letting him know how many women find it impossible to orgasm through penetration alone. But as long as you are satisfied, or he gets you to orgasm before with oral/fingering/etc, then he shouldn't worry.
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