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Guess I'll say the obvious. It's 2009. Ask him.
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If he is scared to death of marriage and you know this then he is never going to pop the question. Since he has obviously always been that way you need to decide whether marriage is that important to you or not and then either accept the situation and enjoy the fact he wants to be with you or leave. Just remember, marriage does not automatically mean forever.
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Why do you feel you have to be married right away to him to be together forever? Why don't you be patient if you really care about him, there's more to life than getting papers signed.
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There are a lot of couples that are fine without a marriage and a piece of paper. Just go with the flow. You live together, you are like married already, enjoy!!!!
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If you love him, why do you HAVE to marry him? Marrying these days no longer has the same meaning. It does not mean he doesn't love you if you aren't married. Ask him this: does he want to spend his life with you? If he does, than that should be all you need to know. Pushing him is likely to result in him backing away. Give him time and perhaps he will come around. If marriage is that important to you though, you may need to find someone else.
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All I can say is that if you both love each other, you should choose your battles carefully.
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