ANSWERS: 7
  • If you really have come to terms with being "bi," then it really shouldn't matter what others think of you. It's your life, you'll do as you please. There really isn't any way out of this situation. You either suck it up and ask the guy in one form or another, or, you just forget the whole thing and keep yourself protected. I must say though, when school is finally done and you're out there in the "real world," this concept you're living by really won't matter much anymore. The faster you get rid of your inhibitions and stop caring so much about what other people think of you, the better you'll feel and the more free you'll be to do what is right for you. Think of it this way... if the people around you won't like you just because of your beliefs or sexual preference, then they really don't like "you" at all anyway. What they really like is the facade you've led them to believe is true. I say be honest with the world and most importantly, with yourself. Screw what other people think. I can guarantee that they're no better off anyway. We're all messed up when it comes down to it. :) Hope that helped.
  • High school is the worse, I remember. I'm not sure if I understand the question totally but are you saying your not sure if he is bi to? If you like him than go for it, he doesn't have to know right away that you are bi. Wait and get to know him some. If it works out than you could tell him, if you want. But do remember that it is high school and if you two break-up, you run the risk of him telling people.
  • G'day MarshallMathers, Thank you for your question. I would get to know him and see what he likes. Then if he might be interested, I would look at making an approach. I'd see what his attitude is to gay or bi people in general without indicating that you are bi. If he appears sympathetic, he may be a prospect. You never know. He might be just as scared about people finding out about his sexuality as you are. Regards
  • become friends play it out over a year then tell him in a privet place and make him sewar he wont tell
  • be friends first...then make subtle moves....dont come on too strong. if he responds there u go GOOD LUCK
  • Êhe chances are...you are alone and you will get stomped then ostracised by everyone. Best to shut your mouth and concentrate on the non homo feelings.
  • i have the same problem

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