Sorry to hear.....the answer is time.

one day at a time. One piece at a time. It just takes time. Sorry, most of us have been there. :(

your bruised but not broken it only feels that way you'll be fine believe me

How are you still alive? O.O

We need to meet for one on one consultation.

lots of time and since you said literally...lots of duct tape

Busy yourself with work, school, hobbies ... anything to keep you from dwelling on your pain.

Sorry to hear that. It will take a little time for you to not feel so heart broken. I suggest you get together with your friends and have dinner, movies, dancing to help keep your mind busy while the heart heals. *Hugs*

Literally????? Come on ! Y did u have to say that? Improper use of the word! To answer ur question- just do everything to get over it. Move on,if it's a romantic thing just think "F%$# them, I can do better". U have the power Luke! Use it!

Get busy... get back in the game. Go out, make new friends, do the things that you love that you may have put off. And by all means, do allow yourself time to grieve, and whine and moan, but only for a very short amount of time.

You can fix it by doing all the things you loved to do before this relationship, such as seeing your friends more often, etc. Also, if there is anything you are interested in doing/learning/changing...go for it. Volunteer, get in shape or take a class. Don't just exist...LIVE! Too much time on your hands will make you feel worse. Just get out and live life, meet new friends, see old friends and do the things that make you feel good.

Yes the answer is time. You will have ups and downs while waiting it out but it's the only way. Keep yourself busy to keep your mind off it. Just stay away from the booze=)

Trust that you will be fine. Certainly not tomorrow, but believe me, it'll get better soon.

in due time it will mend itself ...

Tell yourself over and over that it is the other person's loss. A love so great should be given to someone who deserves and desires it, not to someone who does not cherish it. Then... save a little cash and join eHarmony. You will feel much better instantly because you will be doing something good for yourself. And you will soon see just how many people are out there that are looking for real love.

learning to believe in yourself. again.

LITERALLY? I highly doubt that, but if it is true then try some gorilla glue.

You'll move on. It's shitty to hear, and hard to do, but you will.

ok this is so important to do, wut ever u do make cookies!!! dont stop till its off ur mind just bake till ur wittle fingas r swelling with pride then send those cookies to the person that broke ur heart n say sorry 4 wut happened and he'll go o ya baby bow chika wow wow, no just kidding, ha ok uh u can always talk bout it to make ur self feel better, thats wut i do, i mean my bf just dumped me cuz he thought i wuz too flirty w/ other guys! load of crap i tell u!~

I'm sorry to hear that, me too well not literally. It just hurts until your numb and that's all there is(((hugs)))

Take his photograph sit in front of it. Start saying all those things you want to say to him at this moment...be it anything..good or bad. Just say it. That's important. If you have his cell no. send him rude sms. Most important "Stand in front of mirror and appreciate yourself" Keep doing this for a day or two. You will feel better.

you need loads of friends to help you find all 1000 pieces and chocolate to help stick it back together!

Literally? You should see a doctor.

Im sorry babe... I have been through that myself. It takes time, and nothing more than that. When my ex left... It was a total punch in the face to my ego because he did it first. But when I had the time to sit back and realize that we should have broken up years ago and how much of myself that I sacrificed to his happiness that he neither acknowledges or appreciates... I realize once the hurt was eased and my heart healed...that Im glad he left! Now is my time! For me!

can't fix, TIME makes it easier to ACCEPT..but won't matter if u become self pitying and stagnant...move on...life is full of heart break times but also many hearty good times....:)

Been there and only time can ease the hurt, but it will be burried way back and surface from time to time. Learn from it and do not be a fool like I was.

You can start by taking care of your health and reaching out to friends for support. Hopefully this poem will be inspirational to you, it has been to me. After A While After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul and you learn that love doesn't mean leaning and company doesn't always mean security. And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises and you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes ahead with the grace of woman, not the grief of a child and you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans and futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight. After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much so you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers. And you learn that you really can endure you really are strong you really do have worth and you learn and you learn with every goodbye, you learn... ©1971 Veronica A. Shoffstall

dont have one,if you dont have one is impossible to brake,but be prepared can get quite lonely sometimes

I really feel for you as I am going through the same - taken today and tomorrow off work - different senario as didn't know him for long but where the heart is involved the results are the same - cannot help you but have total empathy with how you feel

sorry but i dont think you can fix it. maybe by time things would appear to be better

I am still dealing but there were medicines involved 3 years later good luck. I am now dating but still I am havingthe nightmares and when that ends it will be over.

Time heals all wounds.

time

Time and some effort on your part

you have not had it literally smashed into a thousand pieces. You wouldn't be talking to us, for one, and that'd be pretty hard to do given that the heart is squishy. could probably be cheese-gratered into a thousand pieces though. Literally means it actually, really and truly, is like that. If you have a literal green thumb, you have dipped it in paint. Since your heart has *figuratively* been smashed into a thousand pieces -- time, for one. Effort, for the other. Do something else. Not something like go to a restaurant alone and cry, or eat a tub of icecream, something like take a class or something. foreign language, pottery, ballroom dancing, whatever trips your trigger. Get out of the house, meet people, be busy enough that you don't have time to think about it, and having so much fun that you don't want to think about it.

Forget the person, get back up on your feet and move forward. Remember, whoever you lost was really just an ordinary person, it's just they seemed special to you for a while.

step one: join the club. love sucks huh?

First idea: Use super glue. . Second idea: Think it through repeatedly until boredom and acceptance.