ANSWERS: 15
  • I personally am not, but one of my best friends is and she had told me she was 12 or 13 when she realized she was attracted to girls.. actually it was the same girl I was attracted to at the time lol
  • Realization: 7 Acceptence: 15
  • I realized when i was thirteen and i didn't accept it until last year (2006) when i started highschool
  • i knew when i was when i was 10
  • When I was in high school, private high school, we were required to wear dress shirts, dress slacks, dress shoes, and ties. None of this bothered me at all, since I took the opportunity to wear BOW ties every day. I also found every possible excuse to wear a suit with my bow ties, such as the frequent days that I had a chess tournament or debate to go to after school. I was like the only kid in school wearing bow ties, until one relatively new member of the chess team started wearing them, as it turned out because I did. It was on one of these chess tournament days, right after school we had to drive about an hour to another school. Todd, the new kid, and I were driven by a senior girl and another girl. So there are Todd and I in the back seat, both in dark suits, very starched white shirts, and bow ties. Right after we pulled out of school, Linda, the girl driving, looked at us in her rear view mirror and kiddingly said, "There a wedding or something?" Todd just smiled back and said, "Who told you?" With that, he kind of slid over the little bit of space between us and slipped his right arm through my left. The feel of his arm through mine caused a kind of tingly feeling to run through me, and I remember breathing a bit heavier, and I found myself swallowing hard beneath my stiff white collar and the very snug knot of my bow tie. I didn't even think of pulling away, and he didn't let go either, so we spent the rest of the trip to the other school arm-in-arm, occasionally smiling nervously at eachother over our bow ties. So we got to the tournament, and we all won. When we got back in the car a couple of hours later, I just kind of automatically extended my left arm to Todd, and he slipped his right arm through it again. We continued to exchange nervous smiles all the way back, although this time we were sitting just a little bit closer. I remember imagining that we were two grooms on our way to our wedding. When we got back to school, Todd invited me over for dinner and I accepted. He lived with his mother and little sister. We stayed in our suits and bow ties through dinner, and afterward his mother had some meeting to take his sister to, so we said we were going to do some studying. We sat on the sofa with our books, still in our suits and bow ties. We had sat very close, and after about a chapter, Todd slipped his arm through mine again. We looked at eachother and then kissed. We ended up for the next hour or two just sitting there kissing. I admitted to him the sort of wedding fantasy I was having during our ride back from the tournament, and he said he was thinking the exact thing. We ended up as a couple for the rest of high school. His mother was very cool with it. She'd wondered what was going on when he suddenly started wearing bow ties! I still wear bow ties for work every day, and the little wedding fantasy I had that day kind of manifested itself during my college days.
  • i found out i was bi at the age of 14 and accepted it at 17 after that lots of guys started asking me out they were saying i liked u since jr high but though u were straight so yea
  • i'm not a gay or bi. :D
  • I was quite young. I started having erections at 10 and started exploring different things. By the time I was 11 or 12 I was only really fantasising about males and was pretty sure I must be that way although I did not know what a gay person was until I was 13. At 13 I tried to force thoughts about girls but it did not turn me on. By the time I was 14 as nothing had changed I just accepted it.
  • now at my age 19 i realized that im bi and even i know my self im bi im still confused coz i still wnt to back before that im into men only but well thats life i dnt know if accept it but i realize it and its hard coz i really dont know what i want. i see them men women atrctve mybe its my nature to me. hopefully.. ill figre out who i want to be with..but im happy.. being bi..lol
  • Hmmm..Interesting in a way. I realized my "Desires" at 15...Still won't come out as it's still looked upon as "Perverted"
  • 1m 19 when i was 13 i think im gay coz i like girls but when i turned 16 i strted to like men now im 19 im surely realize iam bisexual
  • I realised at 16 when I had my first relationship with a girl, before that I was confused and I guess I didn't know for sure until I had pursued it. I guess you would have called it bi-curious. Although I am not sure that even now I accept it fully. I don't like to call myself, or think of myself as bisexual.
  • I realized it when I was 19 and accepted it last year, at 32...I'm really good at denial, I guess.
  • I realized at 13 or 14 and came out when I was 19.
  • Realize- 12 Accept- 36.

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