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It's hard to understand why people do things, but the first and hardest part is dealing with the fact that it isn't about you, it's about her. She made this choice based entirely on how she felt. The good part is that she did this before you got married. Time to move on and find someone who deserves your heart. Obviously, she didn't.
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but why the disrespect so much? And to be lied to all those years is very tough to deal with too. She wrote me an email only time she contacted me after the breakup to say that she never wants to speak to me again like i was the one who did something. Very confusing. I work with her family too by the way an dmost of them say she has lost her mind but they have to support her.
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She types the letter, because she knew she couldn't do it face to face. Breaking up with someone in person is extremely difficult. She also probably got a new boyfriend real quick probably to ease the pain of being without you (rebounding is the fastest "cure" from what I've seen). The same goes for why she doesn't want to hear from you again. Contact makes the pain so much more real. The initial reason for the breakup though, that can be anyones guess. Likely cold feet, and doesn't want to be tied in the rest of her life.
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