ANSWERS: 17
  • If the girl is obese then sure...its a health issue
  • No, not pressure. If she is unhealthy and I cared, I would pressure her. But not for appearance. If he doesn't like what he sees and is that superficial then he should do her a favor and leave her.
  • Putting pressure on a person to do anything, let alone lose weight, is just counter-productive. Encouraging and supporting a girlfriend in a bid to lose weight is the only way forward.
  • No, honestly pressure should not even enter the situation. I believe if your weight is a health issue then encouraging you to lose weight is alright. True we all have our ideal person we want in our lives but reality says we all shift in weight as time passes. No one is going to remain the same weight all through a relationship you must have a average but no set rule. Many things can cause weight gain some are health causes and can not be easy to mange.
  • no!if he do it 4 him then thet is bad and he have no right 2 do it,he only care about her health then it allright (wth-in limets),am a guy btw
  • Personally, I'm not one of the guys who likes women to look like young boys. A pleasingly plump, soft feel is fine with me. Like Chief, if my woman were struggling with heath threatening weight, I would do all I could to help her win the battle to loose it, but putting pressure on her would not be the way.
  • Should the guy and girl be happy then neither should fold to what the majority thinks!
  • No, because my standard would have the girl gaining weight to fit my standards. I like barbecued ribs not female ribs. Seriously though....If you have to ask yourself that, it's clear you are pretty insecure. I'm betting that you are just some hot chick that is denying you are hot because one or two douchebags called you fat. You can't let people control your mind like that.
  • Yes, if she started to put on weight after they got together. Just because she's in a relationship doesn't mean that she should let herself go. If she does, then he should return the favor to see how she likes it. Problem is: It would still probably bother him more because most guys care about looks more than most gals. However, if she was chunky before they got together, then he obviously "had it commin'".
  • hi, katelyn, babieeeeeeeeeeee ... noperz ... but y'know, if a girl's gonna put on weight ... i'd rather she put the weight on the boobz and the booty ... but maintain the hourglass figure ... 36-24-36 ... that way i could enjoy more junk in her trunk ... LoLzZzzz ... ^_^
  • Trying to change someone in anyway during a relationship is pointless because the true person is always there deep inside. Yeah, a guy wants his girl to stay thin but if you start to put pressure on the situation it will matters much worse. Girls put pressure on guys to change the way they live their lives, and guys pressure girls about appearance. It's a two way street....
  • No I don't , if he doesn't like her the way she is then he should leave ad let her find someone worthy of her.
  • No it isn't, and the girl should move on from him That said, people (men or women) should take repsonsibility for how they look, it is unfair to move into a relationship slim and become fat and still expect your other half to still be turned on by your body. That to me is complete self indulgence. You cant change and not expect it to impact upon your partner, wether that change is physical, emotional or psychological. You cant establish the perameters of a relationship and then change them.
  • Women have their standards of us as well.
  • No at all if he really loves her then he shouldnt care how much she weighs as long as she is eating healthy
  • Not a pressure but to educate her, to look good and cute herself too.
  • What kind of guy tells the girl he's with to "lose weight?" that maybe says to me he prefers the looks over the personality. Do what you feel comfortable doing, after all you are your own boss. Take care!

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