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Wait a minute here...you guys are going out now and he feels "cheated" that you were with someone else BEFORE you got together with him. Did he always know that he was going to meet you one and day and fall in love with you?! He shouldn't be acting like this. Past is what it is...it's the past, it's gone! You didn't have the slightest of idea that you were going to meet this guy once in your life and fall in love with him and then he'd turn around and say that he feels cheated by you. You need to speak to him about this, because what he's saying, really doesn't make any sense.
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oh for goodness sake, you are with him now. Why should you feel sorry for him for not being happy with you because you were in a relationship with someone else before him. He needs to get real and realise that it's the same for everyone else in the world too. I'm sorry but he has no reason to feel cheated and depressed now, you've met him and are finally with him. Don't waste any more time over it. If he does, reassure him that you won't put up with it for much longer and maybe then, he'll realise he doesn't want to lose you.
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If he feels cheated and depressed at the thought of you being with someone else before him, perhaps he shouldn't be with you. If he's with you, he needs to accept that you have a past. If he doesn't want to, perhaps being with him isn't the best idea.
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