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As uncertain as you sound try flipping a coin - It would give you better advice than any of us here. If you want to stay - Stay if you don't then leave.
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That's what I feel, that if I dump my bf I will start to have feelings for him again. I don't really know what you should do...just wanted to let you know I am feeling the same way.
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i was with my ex 3 years, i felt the very same thing as u are now, if u feel in ur heart you dont want to be with him then break it off, it wouldnt be fair to be stringing him along either, if you feel u want to be single then that shows you have lost feelings for him. the way i saw this was it was a risk i had to take. you will never no how u feel until you do it. but if you stay with him you wont be happy if u wanna be single. ask yourself why is it coz ur relationship has got boring? have you lost trust in him?
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Hearts aren't toys. You don't pick them up and play with them for a while, then dump them. You are going to inflict a world of hurt on your boyfriend. If you dump him because you are bored with him and want to be single for a while, perhaps you should just stay single, rather than inflict that pain on the next boyfriend. In real life, relationships ebb and flow. A mature person learns to accept the seasons of a relationship and that love is something you do, not something you feel. If you continue to do love for your boyfriend (not sex, love) the feelings will come back without dumping him and causing him a lot of pain. How do you do love? By thinking constantly, daily, what you can do to show love for him, then doing it. Hopefully, he notice and respond in kind. If not, tell him what you are doing and that you need the same. When each of you is constantly thinking of the other all day long, and doing little things for the other, the feelings will come back. This doesn't need to be a grand gesture. Making a cup of tea is good.
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Grow up.
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Reads a little selfish t'me. Do him a big favor. Dump him!
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Dump not lest yea be dumped! Don't walk away stay and resolve. Love is eternal! Be true to yourself!
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