How can some people just get over problems so easily and others develop a heart of stone?
by 
Blackberry.
ANSWERS: 7
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I think the heart of stone develops from ones desensization from years of heart break and turmoil. I have found myself drifting this way. Not a heart of stone though, maybe a heart of clay..........dry!
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I think some people just like to be miserable due to ignorance. While others see things for what they are, learn a lesson, and move on. Normally, the ones that are cold, have either been hurt so bad & fear being hurt again, but lack that desire to search that place that brings comfort.
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If someone dose something to hurt me i pretend it hasnt bothered me but in secret ill be in bits ,i hide my feelings with certain people but if i trust you and let you in im the most softest person you will meet ,but ive had loads of s*** from certain family members and after so much its getting to the point were its not bothering me as much as it used to,its not that im hard as stone its just how much can a person take ,i think people can make you that way as it can be hard to trust after so many times of being let down ,so you put a wall up and this can seem to people you are hard.
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Others? It is usually the ones with the heart of stone that can get over problems easily...unless their own heart is broken.
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I used to dwell upon problems and bitterly hold grievances until it occurred to me that this in unnatural (insane) behavior. First, one must DECIDE that an occurrence is negative. Then must, through practice, initiates an "anger" reflex. Finally, one must CONSCIOUSLY RE IMAGINE whatever circumstance they choose to view negatively to MAINTAIN or PROLONG bad feeling about it. Eventually, one is faced with the question: Why would anyone PURPOSELY make themselves feel bad unless they LIKE feeling bad? To deny liking bad or negative feelings YET continue to consciously create a mental environment conducive to feeling bad is INSANITY. So the answer to your question is, hardly anyone seriously questions their sanity, so most of us go through life inflicting pain upon OURSELVES while blaming outside circumstances. "The difference betwwen me and YOU is...I KNOW I'm insane!"
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The ability to deal effectively with problems that come your way is based on two factors, your training and the chemical balance in your brain. Many ideas and tips can be learned/taught for dealing with things, and if your brain chemicals are out of balance, they can be treated with proper diet, exercise and medication.
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Some people are just better at hiding their true emotions, Better not to worry about the things you cant change, and change the things you can.
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