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You don't say WHY he wants to break up. If it's because of the cheating, well, while I don't condone your cheating, he did it first, and you forgave him, and he supposedly forgave you. (Here's my answer to someone asking about forgiving a cheater - http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2691789 and http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2676754 (Yes... You can.) If it's because you "didn't keep" the child (abortion or adoption), and you did it "for him" (which sounds like he ASKED you to), then he may be feeling guilty for asking you not to keep it. He may also be thinking of the fact that you became pregnant, NOT with him, but with someone else. Again, this CAN be forgiven, but he needs to want to (and maybe he did forgive that.) If it's for any other reason, we don't know what it is. We can't read his or your mind. If there's more to it, we need to know to give you a good answer and advice. (And, make sure you ask a question. Someone COULD flag this one as nonsense, though AB has been known to accept "implied" questions, which I took this as.)
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