Tell them that if they want to live in your house then they must abide by your rules. If they like they are more than welcome to go get a job, find their own place and live their lives how they like. Otherwise they need to grow up, quite their bitching, and realize how much you put into taking care of them putting a roof over their head and food in their bellies. Some people's parents.

Wow, are you for real? Thats some very strong words...im thinking they dont really hate you.:)

You should show your love to your parent. That's God's way.

Stop acting in such a way that would make them hate you.

You should talk to them! If you have done anything wrong in the past then pledge them to forgive you!

Many people say "oh, your parents don't REALLY hate you." This is not true in some cases. My friend's parents REALLY hate him. His father beats him up, and on frequent occasions, the mother even phoned the police, saying that my friend attacked his father and was defending himself! Haha, of course the father went to jail for 2 weeks for reacting too violently, but my friend was sent to juvenile for 3 months, and counselling for 2 months. When he got a job to save up money to move out of their house, his parents took his savings and kept using it for gambling, etc. He finally hid his savings book as well as his cards, etc., and when he did, they beat him up again. I tried phoning the cops, but because they were frequently called to his house, no one would listen to me or my other friends (I think they thought it was just a group of brats trying to "pull one over their eyes"). His parents have kicked him out of their house numerous times, saying that he isn't providing enough money for them (um, hello? They spent it all on gambling?). He ended up going from friend to friend for 2 weeks. When I ONCE went over to his house to finish up a project, his mother took him over to the kitchen and slapped him for not doing the dishes. She pushed him to the ground and used such vulgar words that I can't describe here on AB... >< I admit, I was peeking in through the door (half watching to stop her in case she did anything worse, and half wanting to see if what he said was true T-T), and she SPAT on him. I felt SO bad for not believing him before. I mean, come on? What parents are LIKE THAT?? Anyway, it IS possible for parents to hate their children. If your parents hate you, then it's best to just stick it out until you save up enough money to get out of their house. I think that is the best option.

Well, depending on how old you are, you should talk to someone. A school counselor would be a good first move, if you are under 18. If you are over 18 you should talk to them directly and see if you can discuss your feeling and perceptions about them. If they are willing maybe a family counselor or relative (grand parent or uncle/aunt) might be a good intermediary.

Ignore them as much as possible.