Is it ever acceptable to inform your ex that you are getting married to someone else---even if you are supposedly "friends" now? would you invite your ex to the wedding?
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jazzy jazz
ANSWERS: 7
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I would be careful how you approach the subject, but if you are suppose to be freinds he should hear it from you not someone else. I wouldnt invite him tho....
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Tell them but do not invite them to the wedding. If you invite them it will make them think you are trying to rub it in their faces.
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leaving her out may come as a breach of your new friendship. you should invite her. besides a wife is not something she would not eventually notice. then hiding them from each other would imply cheating. friendship after marrage (to my understanding) is not as smooth as it could be. i think that at least informing her would do less to rock the boat.
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i wouldnt dare to invite her...because there is always a feeling hiding underneath and it may make you hesitate...
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Depends on how long it's been since you two were together and if your ex has a serious relationship. If it's been at least 2 months and your ex is in a relationship then it's safe for you and his feeling to tell him - in this case I would invite my ex to the wedding. Otherwise I think he will appreciate that you had mercy on his feelings and didn't tell him.
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No, that's bad form.
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Yes, there are circumstances where it would be appropriate to let your x know that you are getting married and that s/he is invited to the wedding. If you really are friends, why not?
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