What do you think about marriage proposals that are planned in front of a bunch of friends, family, or spectators?
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I don't believe in the concept of marriage...it doesn't matter where and how it's proposed!
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better to do it just the two as you are marrying them not the friends,family or spectators
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Completely embarrassing. To me, a proposal should be private and intimate, unless the two people plan on handling it that way. And gee what a surprise if the one who's being asked isn't so sure about marriage.
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Well, I just have wonder in this case what would happened if she said NO, how embarrased would the guy be? If he's sure that she'll say yes, though, which probably is the case in most proposals, then I am sure it depends on the people. Some may find it ultra humiliating, and others may thing it's romantic and impressive. As with most things, it depends on the people and the circumstances as to how it all will go.
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It can be sweet or embarrassing, depending on the answer. -
I think it's ridiculous. First, it sets the person being proposed to into a position where they almost have to say yes to avoid embarrassment and secondly, this is something that should be intimate.
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I think any kind of marriage proposal is sweet. Some guys just let u pick out your own ring and that is that. Any time you put effort into something, you just gotta appreciate someone for that. Embarassing or not, the thought is just so sweet.
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For the most part it is neither here, nor there. Anytime someone is put on the line in front of people, they tend to save face. Chances are pretty good, the answer will be a yes. That, however doesn't mean that is the REAL answer. If it is a good relationship and marriage has been discussed, then it is always enjoyable to have friends and family around to share in the moment of happiness. It can be more romantic, however, to do it in front of no one, or just one or two in a place where a great memory took place.
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It depends on the reason for doing so. If it is a genuine act where you are proposing and really want her to be able to share with those she loves, it is kind of sweet. If you are doing it because you can't ask her face on by yourself, then it SUCKS>
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To each its own
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i think its got to be embarrassing for both of the people. one is on the spot in front of a large amount of people and the other, if denied is embarrassed in front of everyone. i guess the correct word is awkward. ^-^
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I think it should be done privately...its more meaningful and definately less dreading and much comfortable. :) Good luck friend
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If the asker knows for sure the other person will love, go for it. My husband would have known that I would hate such a thing, that I would prefer an intimate one on one kind of moment to be asked. If someone knows the other person would hate it, it's really rude to do to them and I would wonder why they chose that way.
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