Would you ever marry someone who already has children? I personally would never do that, just like those who want them.
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No. I wouldn't be mature enough to handle that, LIKE EVER
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Wether a person already has kids or not would not affect my decision to marry them. If I was in love with that person, I would love everything about them, including their kid(s).
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I sure would and did. He had 2 kids and at the time they were 4 yrs old boy and a 2 yrs old daughter. They are now 28 yrs and 26. And they think of me as a mom as well as their real mom. I love kids so I was very happy with it. I am now a grandma to a grandson, even though the daughter isn't really my daughter. It is special. I get mothers day cards and the whole 9 yrds.
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Probably not.
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Yes - your partner is like he/she also becouse he/she has already the kids.
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I have been married twice to ladies who had children. I have helped raise 3 boys whose fathers wouldn't pay child support, wouldn't keep promises to their sons, and really didn't want to be bothered with them. None of that had any relevence to the love I had for their mothers. I didn't love them more or less because they had children. I do love all three boys as if they were my own children. They are good, find, upstanding young men, two with families of their own, one on his way to the Marines.
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I'm 46 and a widow. I have five adult children and 8 grandchildren. I'm unlikely to marry again, but I would never marry someone who had children under the age of 18. I would also not marry someone who had adult children who were not accepting of me and our relationship.
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No, I don't think I could do that properly. I would always feel like an outsider no matter how friendly the children were. I would prefer to have my own children to raise, and not share those children with another woman.
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When I was younger, before I ever got married, I wanted to find a man that had NEVER been married. YOur attitude about changes as you get older! Mine did!
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Not I. I don't like kids, don't want kids and especially don't want to deal with someone elses kids and all the stuff that comes with being a step-parent. But that's just me, and I don't ever want kids. My s/o and I are in our mid thirties and don't plan on having any. If I were single and met someone who had kids, that would be a deal breaker for sure.
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Yes I would, but of course I have children myself.
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well my wife and i got married and had kids neither of us had any but there is no shame in marrying or being in a relationship with someone who has kids. my mom had me, my dad died and then my mom got remarried and my step dad had kids as well and i turned out just fine so yea its perfectly fine. just make sure you treat their kids and your kids the same.or treat their kids how you would treat yours (if you don't have any yourself). hope this helps. :)
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i did. and it was one of the best things to happen to me.they were 3 and five when we got together.now in their twenties. i could not possibly love them more!
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Not me.
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If my wonderful husband died, I don't think I could find anyone who would make me as happy as he does. I would prefer to be alone with my cats than re-marry so the whole issue of children would be moot.
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