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  • The wife's decision to leave him for a woman should have no affect on his self esteem. If she left him for another man, I could understand. She probably was a lesbian or bisexual all along and now just wants to be with a female. His sex life with her was probably down the tubes and any relationship with a fully heterosexual woman should be all he needs.
  • I commend you for asking the question you did. I think your man is very lucky to have you as his women. I think you understand how important it is for a man to "feel like a man." I think you should use your verbal skills to build him up. Let him know that you think he is "all man." This should not be hard to do because he is "all man," in my opinion. A real man is a great dad and a good boyfriend. You have already come up with reasons why he is a "real man" in your question. Keep up the good work! Explain to him that he cannot control the sexual orientation of his former wife. No matter what she did in the past, he is all yours now. Remind him that the past is the past. Also, as you continue to build him up verbally, increase the action in the bedroom as much as you can. Tell him that the only person who's opinion of his manhood matters is you. Anything his old wife did is just not significant anymore. I hope this answer helped a little bit. Good luck in your relationship and please post a comment on how things are going.

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