I'm a new domonatrix, what are some role-play techniques for me & my boyfriend? I have bought a nice pair of locking leather wrist & ankle cuffs, ball gags, silk and nylon rope, leather dog collar & leash.
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Hi Lady Hannibal! It sounds like you have all of the tools to get you going. As a submissive wannabe, I love being tightly tied until such time that my mistress would be ready for me to do her bidding. You may wish to consider turning a spare closet or other small space into a prison to keep him in. Forced feminization is also a fun thing to do to him, making him wear women's things for you. Mostly, though, make him serve you orally in every way.
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your limited only by your imagination! your collection of toys sounds good. i would add a jacket though! ;)
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Yes, your imagination is your limit. Talk to him at length, find out his fears and fantasies... lots of communication. Try some research to, explore the web while holding his orgasm meter and see what excites him. http://Alt.com and http://collarme.com have some nice "fetish" checklists. "Screw the Roses and Bring Me the Thorns" is a great beginner book to read. Wanna keep him in place? Try a humbler like the one from Hanson Paddlewerks. It will keep him on his knees unless he wants to castrate himself.
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Get together a list of rewards and punishments. Set him tasks and then depending on how he performs have him choose a reward or you choose a punishment.
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sounds nice, wish my wife would have some nice toys like these
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A sort of "reverse reward" system can be fun. You tell him to do as you say and he will get a reward, when it comes to receive it, it can be something very humiliating or hard to do instead of something good. I've often thought of a situation where I'm forced to go down on a girl for a long time until she is satisfied over and over. Her promise of a reward is not what I was expecting at all when I'm told that for being so good, I get to leave her place nude as she pushes me out the door.
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Take the collar and put it on him when you and him are alone at home. Require that he be scantly clothed while at the house. I would recommend introducing him to anal play. Purchase a butt plug for him. If he doesn't want to because "it's for gay dudes" then next time you tie him up, have him restrained in such a manner that you can easily have access to his ass but he can't move. This will teach him to start obeying your commands. Give him tasks to complete daily and make sure he does it while fulling using a ball gag and a butt plug.
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