Girls- When a guy cheats and says "it was just sex" does this make a difference to you?
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No, it doesn't make a bit of difference. The nature of the cheating doesn't in any way diminish the disrespect he's shown me, the hurt he's caused, or the cavalier way he jeopardized the relationship.
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To me Cheating is total disrespect, toward's all involved that hurt because of the Cheater's Action's - No - It makes no difference
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No..cheating is still cheating, regardless of the feelings (or lack thereof) involved..it's one of the oldest "cop outs" there is to justify a lack of, not only control, but of respect.
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Of course "NOT." Being in a relationship with another person requires you to understand their limits. Most women equate sex to love. It is such an intimate act which requires a woman to literally open herself up to a man. Whereas some men view sex as literally "taking a piece" with no strings attached. I've seen many questions where women inquire about men and their actions. Maybe this person doesn't understand most women b/c in our opinion it's never "just sex." If he said that he made a mistake then depending on the relationship, it may make a difference.
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cheating is a selfish, committment breaking act! it has nothing to do with 'just sex', because it hurts, soul destroys and breaks everything the one who was cheated on, believed in. there is never an excuse for cheating. if they continued to state that as an excuse, i would be out of there. if they recognised it as a mistake and were truely remorseful, then there was probably hope to continue with the relationship.,
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Yes. If he said to me 'it was just sex', I would roll my eyes as I kick him out the door for not coming up with something more original
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Of course it was "just for sex". I would say, to that response, "I hope you enjoyed the sex and I hope you get a lot more from that person because you and I are FINISHED, get out"!
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Yes of course it makes a difference, it is a betrayal of trust and once broken trust can never be repaired
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As if saying that makes it okay. . . please. No, it makes no difference to me. And when the please forgive me whining starts you can shrug your shoulders and say, "it's just a relationship/marriage" and let the door hit him in the a** on the way out.
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i would tell him "oh ok.. so it will be ok with you if i told you i have sex with your bestfriend last night.. hmm don't worry sweety, it was just sex ;)"
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Sex isn't JUST A THING. It's huge...
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i would be more upset if i was to find out that my fella had kissed and cuddled someone else before, inbetween or after sex, but i would kick him out if he said that it "was just sex" and be devastated, but to be close with someone else would make it a lot worse.
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yes...i've cheated and it was "just sex" and i've cheated when it was emotional..whoa: what a difference when it was emotional. it wouldn't hurt me so much if a guy cheated & it was just sex..i know the difference from experience
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