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Dude probably didn't shower. Find yourself a guy who knows how to roll it back, and make him be the first one to do oral sex.
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Well sex isnt dirty and pleasing your partner (and he you) is very satisfying. Oral sex is natural and a part of sharing of one another's bodies. Don't think of it as dirty. It does help if you've both just showered and you smell fresh and clean.
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Giving head is just not that hard and the fact that you did it on "the first try" and felt bad about it, well you shouldn't.What I'm concerned about is that you are getting into sexual stiuations that you are not ready or prepared for. Don't put out to please boys or seem cool with girls. Take your time, do what is right. Don't give BJs when you don't want to. Dont lose your virginity under pressure. Lol.
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And now in English please.
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Maybe you just don't feel ready, and you didn't realise until it was over. But that's okay, there's no point in dwelling on it. You just don't do anything you aren't comfortable with. And I'm seriously hoping you're not like 13...
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it's psychological. to you, sex is still dirty. you aren't ready for it yet. if you keep insisting on being sexually active just to make your boy happy, you'll keep feeling dirty. wait til you're ready. you'll know you are because you won't feel guilty anymore.
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Thanks for sharing. That's just what I needed to know today!
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You're regretting your action, which is completely normal. I suggest you speak to a trusted, older, non-judgemental friend about this, and you'll realize that what you've experienced is a normal reaction. We learn as we age to be more selective about our decisions, and you're probably just learning that lesson. Good luck!
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Giving head (oral sex) is normal and not dirty or bad. Don't be forced to do anything sexual let it come natural and enjoy it. Maybe this little bit of information may help you... http://celebrateintimacy.com/karaoh2.html This bit of information may give you a more spiritual side of giving head or oral sex. http://www.sexinchrist.com/oralsex.html I really hope this helps you and anyone else who cares to read it.
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I would think that your boyfriend didn't help much referring to your first time as a professional. The act alone can be seen as degrading and then adding a comment that is sure to make you feel like you did this special thing just for him, to just anyone. The feeling dirty is a normal response and will fade in time. I am sure your boyfriend was just trying to show how much he enjoyed what you did for him. a poor attempt to show encouragement but we all say stupid things at times. Just remember you did something for your boyfriend, so you have no reason to ever feel bad about it. Time will take the bad feeling away.
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You obviously really care for your BF, especially so to have performed oral on him. That special first time experience you had saved for him, he now has denigrated you to being a whore who must have blown every guy she ever met. It is natural to feel the way you felt after those comments, what is important is that you know what you did for him was a special loving act and hopefully you will overcome your negative feelings so you will be able to feel hot and sexy next time that moment of ultimate intimacy arises.
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I feel sorry for you, doing something for the first time, just to have someone you care deeply for leave you high and dry. I'm sorry, however some if not half of the men on this planet are not like that
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Don't worry hunny - I had the exact same thing, then the guy turned around the next day and told me i wasn't great lol.. guys can be asses.. being good just takes enjoyment and practice.. and don't worry, everyone feels 'gross' after the first time they do it. once you get used to it, do it a few times, and receive oral yourself, you'll stop feeling that way for sure :) btw, you gotta keep reminding yourself that its not all about pleasuring him, you get turned on by it too :P
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Simply means you were horny or you really liked the guy or you carefully watched porn before or... Can be many different reasons why you were good at the very first time. No need to feel bad.
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dirty?Why?Its not like you just sucked off some random dude.
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