On one hand I'd be proud to be dating a girl who others found very attractive. On the other hand I'd be more secure with a girl others found to not be extremely attractive.

first of all what are conventional good looks? i have always been considered as very attractive (im not tryin to blow my own horn and i never thought i was that great) but i got a lot of attention for it and was always 'the hottest girl' in all of my jobs and uni lecture etc etc. i did not feel the same so pleas dont think im stuck up. anyway my past bf's were jealous a lot. but they were secure and got over it. they used to say 'don u know how many people look at you! i hate it! i always hav to stare them down' but like i said they got over it (in my eyes someone has to be beautiful inside to be beautiful on the outside so my exes are never 'conventionally perfectly attractive' but i thought they were the most handsome people in the world! ANYWAY. my last bf has known me for 5 years and has always been jealous of me having other partners, he is very insecure. anyway he constantly tells me that all guys think that the perfect way for a woman to look is - 6foot skinny and blonde. which i never thought personally. i mean we all have different views on attractiveness. so in his eyes i think he is jealous and trying to bring me down (i am the opposite of this look- short, fit and slim, curves where i want them, dark hair (i dye it dark) and green eyes) so if he tells me wat this 'conventional beauty' is then i wont feel i fit that and will therefore not feel so good about myself, attract less attention and feel insecure and not leave him for someone else because all guys want 6ft blondes and therfore no one else will have me. So my point is. what is conventionall beauty? i think its hard to define because i dont fit his 'conventional beauty' yet many ppl find me beautiful and i dont have his idea of conventional bbeauty either- i have probably only once thought a woman who fitted that stereotype was beautiful, and i cant say i, or many others have a 'type'