i think every one has a destiny, it just depends on what u do to get there.

Yes i do,cause i believe that somewhere out there,i already found my soulmate..and no i am not talking only about one person.I can mention 2 people for which i care so much and i concider them soulmates. a lover and a friend. Things in life are kinda tricky you know.Cause when you think that everything will go ok and you are fighting too much about it..you might fall and crash just in seconds..but if you let it all flow,you will find what you need.

i do believe with those too hmm actually one person made me believe of those but still dunno unless il see him face to face and grow old with him..

I think that those two things have as much faith as you put into them. If you truely believe it's true, it'll appear to be true, but if you doubt it at every turn, things will always seem more pessimistic. Personally, I think it's kind of a load of crap, but if someone believes in it then more power to them for being able to believe that.

If by that you mean one and only one person that you are predestined for, then nope. I think for everyone there are millions of people who could be a good match, and it's just chance and geography that determine of you met or not.

I do believe in soulmates cauze I believe everybody will find their love.

Yes of course I do.

Yes, I found mine.

Yes, If you had asked me that a few years ago I would have said no but that was before a man I knew when I was 4 and again in my teens and again in my 20s walked back into my life in my 40s and spent 8 months telling me that we were soulmates, a term I had never believed untill then. and how he had known it his whole live. He had a stroke 5 months to the day of telling me he loved me.He had his stroke while I was talking to him, At the exact same time of day that he died, which was 10 days later. And he died exactly 8 months from our reconnect. This meant that instead of reading about his death in the paper I was with him. After all of those years apart. Yes I now believe in soulmates and destiny. and a whole lot of things I never believed in before.

♥ I know I do and I married him. ♥

Yes I do believe that everyone has someone that is perfect for them maybe even created for them

Yes, some couples I see, I can't even imagine them being in love with anyone else, like they were made for each other..that's why I believe in them.

No, that's bullshit

Sure they do. You might have more than one.

Yeah, I do. I believe that there is that perfect someone for everyone.

I believe that everyone has a soulmate. I believe I that in my boyfriend of 5 years, he's everything I've ever wanted and more.

I'm sure that some people do, but I'm not one of those people. I refuse to think that there is just one person for everyone. Obviously just one at a time :P but you know what I mean

maybe you could buy her a gift like a teddy bear

Who's friend? Yours, or hers?

I don't really think the notion of "the one" is quite right, as in "there's one person out there you're destined for". That's a little too fatalistic for me. But I think there's no question that the DEPTH of your connection to your partner matters, and the chemistry which produces a deep connection is a bit unpredictable: what looks good on paper isn't necessarily IT. So this is not good news for your marriage: if she thinks you're not the one, I would translate that as "the depth of connection is inadequate to be satisfying for her". Chances are good it also means it's not really satisfying for you either -- although your dial may not go up as high as hers. The best thing you can do is let her choose, give her the room to do that. If you love her, let her know, but don't cling or force the issue. Love isn't really in our hands, ultimately... although we're responsible for what we do with it when it decides to show up. Good luck.

Gossipy, manipulating 'friends' drove wedges between me and my husband at a low time in our marriage. Don't listen to them, ask your wife. In my experience people feel they've met their 'soul mate' when they find someone who they communicate with easily and feel heard and responded to. Maybe, like in so many relationships, this is a communication problem.

What kind of friends do you and your wife have that someone would run and tell this "tid-bit" to you? Honestly, this is just a backstabbing tactic and whether your wife meant it or not is not the point. i would take this "statement" from your wife with a big grain of salt and I would look carefully at the person who told this to you. If you were bugging the phone line and this is how you found out, shame on you.

tell her to get barefoot and pregnant, take out the trash, do the dishes, clean up the house, and stop whining. tell her to meet you at the door when you come home with a fresh dress, and dinner on the stove. :-)

I don't really believe in the idea of a "soul mate". I think there's probably millions of people out there any one person could have a happy marriage/life with.

I don't believe in soul mates. I believe that you can feel a deep compatibility and that this has gotten labeled as soul mate. I also think that if you overheard your wife say this...you shouldn't assume it is 100% accurate. It could have been more about what the other person needed to hear than the facts. Sometimes too people start to believe in the elusive soul mate when the romance that media leads them to expect is glaringly absent from everyday life. The old Reality bites syndrome. You do need to talk about it though, things like this will fester if you don't.

From Nitroduck's Dictionary of Disaster: SoulMate (Noun), 1. A term created to legitimize a "taboo" relationship. 2. An explanation regularly given to answer why an ex-wife was always hanging out with a lady she proclaimed as her "soul mate" - this soulmate returned with a "twin flame" soul mate... Whatever the hell that is supposed to be. Apparently you have to kiss all over a twin flame soul mate's magic carpet parts. I AM CERTAINLY NOT suggesting that this is your situation. It was just an opportunity to rave on. Now.. Whether soulmates exist or not, I can assure you I am not married to one. My wife and I could not possibly be more different. She's a Pepsi and Bud Light drinking Democrat, and I'm a Coke and Busch drinking Republican. We actually hate colors the other likes... I'm documentaries and Science Fiction She's Law and Order/CSI. I'm a boy and she happens to be a girl. They don't make soulmates that way. She is, however, my very best friend. I am totally crazy about her, and wouldn't trade her for anything in the world (After all, having girl parts trumps the Democrat thing) :) Dump the soulmates worries. Your wife told somebody she loves you, and that is something to celebrate. Since you aren't a soulmate, you don't have any elf magic bullshit to live up to.

I believe I will find my soulmate.

I kind of understand this situation. I really love my boyfriend, I want to marry him and raise a family, but I'm not sure he's my soulmate, per say. I knew when I first met him that he was a great guy and that I would like to marry him, but I wasn't in love with him at that point. I'm not sure I believe in soulmates at all. I just know that he and I compliment each other nicely, even though we are very different in many ways. Just because he listens to metal and I'm a country girl doesn't mean that the other guy who listens to country is my soulmate. I wouldn't worry about what you wife said. If you are really that concerned though, ask her. She'll tell you what she meant, and if she isn't your "soulmate," then so what? You're married after all, and you love each other, that's what really matters.

Well they say a soul mate doesn't necesaraly have to be your mate, it could be a friend, or a person of the oposite sex....plus, everyone has their own version of what soul mate means..so dont worry about that

I definitely believe in soulmates and I think that a soulmate is not necessarily of the same sex.

I am married to my soulmate although it took us some time before we realized our true relationship which goes far beyond marriage.

Find a new friend and print and keep a copy of Nitroduck's Disaster Dictionary.

I kind of do, yes. I think that each person has a counterpart somewhere

I hope they are out there somewhere. i definitly believe in soulmates i just wish it was a little bit easier to find them like maybe you should get a gps when your at a certain age that shows where your soulmate is because their ankle was tagged at birth.