ANSWERS: 8
  • Sounds like a real catch you got there. I'd make him pay his share of the food. Does this cheapskate ever take you out? Damn, I NEVER let my dates pay for ANYTHING.
  • Either you go Dutch or don't go out at all. Better yet, if you go out without him, he'll get the point
  • The whole who should pay thing is stupid. You should each just pay for yourselves. Wasn't that what the whole woman's rights movement was about or was that just when it suited?
  • I am looking for a woman who isn't yet as liberated as you.
  • If he's not paying due to debt yet you still want to go out, then I don't see a problem with you paying. If he's the one that wants to go out, but he wants you to pay, then there is a problem. Maybe sit down with him and discuss some inexpensive or free date options, so money isn't an issue.
  • Debt is a lame excuse to be cheap. It's been said that your money is where your heart is. If he's not spending it on you then his heart is set on something or someone else - most likely himself. Beware!!!
  • Bad debt, arguing with you before and after dates that you have paid for and you still step up for more? What's he got going for him that you are still hanging our with him? If you are set on his charms, I'd check into his bad debt and try and find out how much and how bad it is, sounds like he has some pretty heavy baggage he's dragging around and he could be setting you up to help carry the load. Then you'll know better if your 50% investment in dates is a good one.
  • He rarely pays on dates, has lots of debts, initiates arguements... not exactly the catch of the century. I think you can do better than this guy.

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