Are there any guys out there who don't have to punch holes in walls, break laptops, smash tvs, throw things or stomp around when they are pissed off at you? What do you guys get out of this? An ego boost or what?

Real men don't need to do things like that, only overgrown toddlers. What they get out of it is getting their own way, just like a two-year-old.

That's not usually normal, I have done it before but that's when I was really really mad, but now I just don't let people make me that mad anymore. There are women that have anger problems just as men do (key up cars, throw clothes and furniture out of the window, throw pots and pans and dishes at men).

I rememeber reading about some study though about the differences in anger between men and women, basically it said mens anger is more of a spike, resulting in outbursts as opposed to women whos anger is more reserved, causing them to hold grudges, anger with a more long term effect.

If a guy does that to you when he's pissed off at you chuck him dude! He's not a guy, he's an asshole!

I don't do any of those when I'm annoyed

It's the kind of guy who will do it to his wife and kids, too. CREEP!

Re: "What do you guys get out of this?"

Massive replacement bills...and the costs related to a much needed pre-frontal lobotomy.

I believe that it is primitive thing, most people that have those kinds of attitudes end up in jail at one point anyway.

I don't do any of those things. I pull out my .45, aim between the eyes and shoot

They get a PPO from myself if they even try that with me!

Testosterone rage. Ive seen it, but I dont engage in that activity. Seems kind of childish:)

m'dear, this isnt a behavior that most men engage in! Those who do will never out grow it without therapy and anger management. Steer clear of this guy before its your head he is bashing against the wall!

I am proud to say that I have never lost my temper like that. My brother-in-law, unfortunately, is that kind of person and he makes himself look like an idiot all the time. Guys who do that just need to chill out. They're too uptight.

I am among the guys who DO NOT ...

While I get my "fuel" from my emotions, I let my logic be the chauffeur ... what you describe is a person who keeps logic tied up in the trunk and lets their emotions drive their actions ... if you feel that they are otherwise worth something special to you, you may consider helping them to learn some self control and self awareness ...

... Otherwise, just dump the dummy, a "Trasher" is some one that should be trashed, so either make them a non-trasher, or dump them, but do not remain "as is" in such a relationship ...

i usual go to a place when im on my own and jus relax come bk and tlk it out

"Are there any guys out there who don't..." "What do you guys get out of this?"

I am afraid I don't understand your question. Are you asking "guys who don't" what they get out of not throwing things, etc, ect?

I don't throw things, etc, etc. And, I don't think I get anything out of it. Except, maybe self respect.

I only break MY stuff when I'm angry. Then I can blame my girlfriend for 'making' me break it, and hate her just a little bit more.

2 guitars, 1 mountain bike, 1 wall(took out with sledgehammer, when I busted through the neighbors were outside looking at me!), innumerable small things....