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  • Time and a distraction I'm afraid.
  • Cry. Cry and it'll eventually go away.
  • I think Tris said It simply. Time to yourself, Freinds To help you control the emotions and take you out on the town.. And staying busy to help distract your thoughts
  • it truly depends on the means by which your heart was broken...
  • Time. I know that's a lame answer, but really its the best one. Give yourself some time to heal and get over this person. At least that's what I do. Others can just go back out there and hook up with someone else.
  • It is possible. Mine was broken almost 3 years ago when the love and light of my life died. I am finally at the point in my life where I feel it is possible that I will be able to open up to someone else in the near future and love them. You just have to go on with your life and not let things hold you back. If you can look at thinks with a positive attitude it is possible to overcome heartbreak and move on with life.
  • Yes, you can mend your broken heart. Give yourself time to process the feeling of loss. It is better to deal with them than to try to ignore them. One you have begun to process those feelings, things will start to turn around for you. The pace at which this happens is defined by each individual. Take care of yourself, get yourself together, before you move on to someone else. The next person you have a romance with will be grateful if you are ready to move on. Best of luck to you, and I am so sorry you are going through this.
  • Thanks 4 all ur answers..its quite obvious what i need 2 do! Life is 2 short u know! Gona enjoy it as much as possible no matter what! Thanx again:)
  • G'day Scholtzie, Thank you for your question. The best way is time. In the meantime, go out with friends and family and try to build a network of friends. Hopefully, you will be able to find love with somebody else in the meantime. Regards
  • I know of no broken heart that ever was mended.
  • I found my answer through Christ. Crazy as it may seem, I opened the Bible and it fell on John 5 and the entire chapter just moved me. It gave me the courage to let go of my abusive ex and take hold of Jesus. But you have to want it. I had to cut all ties and be done with him forever. I can't ever look back. I can't ever answer his cries of, "I'm sorry." It's hard, but I feel so much better without him in my life. I know I can do it. I know Jesus is there and that helps.
  • For me, the best way to get over an old love, is to get under a new one!
  • start dating someone else...rebound....hey that's the whole point right? lol...well thats what i would do. may not be the best idea though.
  • Like any other wound, a broken heart requires time to heal. Best you can do during the healing process is to protect it in such a way that nothing will reopen the wound before it has had a chance to fully heal.
  • Duct tape. [Well, it seems to be used for just about everything else!] :o)
  • Make that broken heart feel that you too have broken for him/her.When we show people that we really care for them, it creates a big difference.
  • When you find out, let me know. I'm still struggling with that one myself.
  • life takes us threw confusion, it takes us threw pain, and most of all the feeling of being broken. when it comes to that i guess you just really got to fight. fight hard, and although you make feel like its impossible as long as you stay strong through it all you should be fine. quote i go by: "i realize that when your heart breaks you have to fight like hell to stay alive because you are that pain you feel. that's life. the confusion & tears. that's there to remind you that somewhere out there is something better & that something better is worth fighting for." - NATHAN ; ONE TREE HILL :) hope that helps.
  • looking forward, making plans for yourself, appreciating the time for you instead of missing the time ye had, instead of feeling lonely im going to take 'me time' and be glad to get it, because before you know it there will be someone else to share your time with, appreciate it now
  • Jesus took away my pain, trust him to take yours, dont expect it overnight tho.be patient
  • Use it again.
  • rebound sex
  • To give that person back what had broke theirs in the first place
  • Don't get it broke.
  • Hope this helps http://www.ehow.com/how_2162360_heal-broken-heart-after-breakup.html
  • A stapler.
  • You mend a broken heart by loving. Slowly but surely, lvoing others (and yourself!) heals your wounds.
  • Time heals all wounds. BULLS**T!!! Regardless LCLCLC, its the only answer I got for ya.
  • By finding someone new and having them break your heart too. You get over the other one and can feel terrible about the new one. And this will go on and on until you learn not to let anybody do that to you. It's called life.
  • loads of chocolate and chick flicks and a few girlie nights in and out :)
  • Listen to the Beatles and that one How Can You Mend A broken Heart song...
  • Give it some time. Delve into hobbies that bring a sense of fulfillment. Talk to people who love you. Engage in a creative medium as well as exercise. Take care of yourself. Know that everything in life tends to happen for a reason and the tide can change at any moment.
  • Superglue, staples and lots of stickytape.
  • With pure love :)
  • Once you find out, tell the Bee Gees. They still want to know.
  • duct tape
  • Surgical measures! The healing time takes a while. Some people take a month, others never really heal.
  • The heart cannot break, just stumble and burn like a worn ligament upon it's last threads. Listen to sad love songs for a night of two (not three) with a tub of your fav comfort food, then, try to have fun with your friends. The more quiet focused the better at first, then work your way up to doing the things that you like to do normally. Reaching that final step will be the hardest as you'll never feel quite ready, do it anyways and thank me later. Other than that, time. Lots of time. Some say up to 6 months.
  • My name is Dr. Time and I will help you mend to where your heart doesn't hurt so much. I can't promise you will be 100%, but it will be better if you give me a chance.
  • You can't. Not overnight anyway. It takes a long time to heal and you'll always have a scare. Don't let that scare make you bitter. Just let it remind you that love is still there for you.
  • your heart isnt broken - you just cant have this person - get over it, be glad this person is your friend now - be patient
  • time my frined only time can heal
  • I'm afraid there is no short way through the grief that comes with a broken heart. I'm still finding little cracks in mine and it's been nearly a year since we parted company. I'm finding it easier but it really takes time and not thinking about this person really helps too. I hope that helps you.
  • appreciate the pain... it will help you value the good things in life better.
  • there is no short remedy. I would'nt shy away from the pain. One really needs to grieve their loss. There is only one thing that works and it's the cliche "Time heals all wounds"
  • That's what the Bee Gees asked
  • Your heart is not broken, it's just ripped open fully, like a book. Just close the book before someone starts reading between the lines.
  • Hmm...I am going to be controversial here and say that you should never put all your eggs in one basket in the first place. If you make yourself the centre of a rich, varied life, then the world will not end when you lose someone; it will just be darker for a while... Most people mean well, but they're changeable and cannot necessarily feel tomorrow what they do today. To completely trust another human being is a beautiful dream - from which you will always eventually awaken. Always remember this, whoever you date - it'll make each day precious, and more likely to lead to another day together.
  • You are the only person that can answer that. Everyone heals differently and no one else can fix your heart for you. It's going to take some time and some real soul searching.

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