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I tend to choose my battles. I don't need to be right all the time, but if I'm going to fight I need to believe that I am right. I have the personality that will also fight more (sometimes) for someone else than I will myself.
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It's much more wise to choose your battles. Being bold can make you arrogent. Be a coward and no one will respect you.
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Bold.
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I choose my battles carefully. I really don't like confrontation, but will engage when necessary.
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all of the above. It depends on who it is and how I feel about the situation
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I tend to choose my battles but I'm probably more on the bold side. But I don't tend to try and hang on to a position I have no hope of holding and prefer to fall back and regroup.
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Time and experience have taught me when to pick and choose my battles.
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Fatalistic! I tend to throw myself into the mix and see what happens.
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My girlfriend and i argue about this issue alot.I moved from baton rouge to cali and it was like bieng in 5th grade all over again.How can people talk smack on someone and then there around them and there kissin there ass.I don't play that game. I'ts all bout respect.You have to give respect to get respect.Where i'm from,that can get you hurt really bad.Back home i fit right in.Here i'm considered violent.I still get a kick out of hearing it because that's from ppl that talk the talk but can't walk the walk.I see things as either black or white or right or wrong.I don't have a grey area.I don't let things linger or get put on the back burner.If someone or something want's to start playing games and such.That's on them.I handle problems right when they happen and get it setteled.We can talk it out,which i prefer or they have the option to just walk away.But some ppl just try to hard to be bad ass's in front of there friends.What i don't get is i've given them 2 options to a peacfull ending and they still want to run there mouths.Then they brought option 3 on themselves.I would rather talk it out then go to blows.But i have no problem throwin and it ends up that way sometimes.There's a reaction for every action.I'm not saying i'm right or wrong at all but it works for me.Like i said before respect is earned not handed out.My girlfriend say's she picks and chooses her battles LOL She caves under pressure.Her son broke into our house.I found his apt keys in the box of nails that he tried to fix the door with. (BUSTED)and she was in totall denial.Stevie wonder could of seen that comin.She want's to handle things her way and for me to stay out of it.So i did.She believed him that he didn't do it and through it in my face.So when i saw him the next time i told him that it was time for the game to change to my rules.With his mom standing right there.He started singin like a canary.He was admitting things we didn't even know a.Then the mom bullshit started that i bullied him into sayin those things.That's why i can't wait.2 more weeks and i'm goin back.
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Choose my battles, that way I can pick the ones I need to win the War.
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I choose my battles with the utmost intellegence and patience. I would never start a fight I knew I couldn't win.
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I am none of the above I guess. I choose not to battle unless I have to defend myself. I am not cowardly, and bold only relates to how I might dress from time to time or the thickness of pen I like to write with when I am not typing.
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I have been thinking about what I am after I saw such boldness from AntigoneRising. I was asking will I fight a good fight? Am I a coward? Now to think, I was very very bold in my younger years, always in some kind of mess, if someone even touched my sis, I would go after the person and till I have no evened with the person, I would not come back home. My teens and early youth were the same. As the time passed, I won the battles, but lost the friends, many good ones. I realized winning a battle was not so important for me, loosing a friend was painful. I became very passive and started to walk out of aggressive, argumentive situations, at times leaving ppl to fight their own battles. This did not make me happy as well as I felt guilty of not protecting the weaker one or bring some justice to the unjustified one. Since then, I choose my battles, I am not bold and I am not coward either. I try to avoid conflicts, but if I have to, I would choose my battle and then it is to win only. Then I fight the good fight, with tooth and nail. I am selective.
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Bold, and too bold for my own good. I just can't resist...
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I choose not to fight unless I must defend myself or someone with me.
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I was very shy as a kid but I dont think I was ever a coward. I am fairly bold but I choose my battles.
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I'm a stubourn turd, I'm bold all the way but only to things worth my while, if you stand up for some something worthless, your worthless.
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All of the above.
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Choose my battles. Some are worth it and some are not.
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Bold, but on the other hand I choose my Battle ground ( something to do with my profession) I am known to fight very hard and never give in on any issue that i feel is unjust. I cannot stand by and see people attacked by a group of others I loathe it when people become like a pack of hounds after a fox, half of them do it just because it is better to run with the pack than to stand at bay. I suppose I am unwise in some measure but I will still fight for the right of the underdog
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