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Tell him you're going to leave him and bring the kids with you...and mean it. He doesn't really sound like somebody who should be raising kids or who even wants to be.
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talk to him and tell him that you and the kids wanna spend more time with him. He needs to be there for you all. Spending time with family is precious and you need to get him to realize that.
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Sorry, not to hurt you but are you his partener or just his babysitter.? Have a good look at what is going on here. If a many loves you, it would'nt be much of an effort to spend time with you and not to mention, with his own children. Sounds like he is very self indulgent. Would he be able to go out on his own if he didn't have you to look after the kids for him? Don't let him throw that line on you that he works very hard for you and the kids, that's just an escape line they always use to make you feel guilty. What you are feeling is all normal. I would feel the same way too hun. Confront him about it and know what you are worth as a person. You deserve better than that. Good luck and have a nice christmas.
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