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Talk to him about it. Men CAN be really thickheaded, but at the same time, if you tell him what your problem is maybe you can work through it together. It's unfair to expect him to cut back on time with his other child, but may be realistic and helpful for you both to think about therapy or some extra one on one time. (welcome to the Bag...and watch your caps...people are funny about that around here :-) )
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If it is possible to try to enjoy the child along with him you may find that you love him too. It is good that he spends time with his child. I am sorry that you lost your baby that is very sad, remember that your boyfriend is probably sad too which has most likely made him realize even more how much he loves his first child. It will help both of you to spend time with the child and it is definately good for the child too.
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