Well all guys look @ porn, that isn't really big thing. Now you have to try and help im out with the drugs, and it will make your relationship stronger

All guys look at porn. All of them. Some of them lie about it because they think their GF will freak out, but all of them do it. So, step one is to get over your anti-porn thing. Doesn't mean you have to watch it with him, doesn't mean you have to like it, but you will have to accept it as one of his things. As for the drugs. What drugs, how much, how often. Has he smoked up three times in the 2 years you've been together, or is he pounding heroin every day. I would say if the former then my advice above goes - get over it and accept it. If the latter then you actually do have a problem, and you should start informing yourself on the issue of drug addiction. The biggest problem you two have tho, is your lack of ability to accept him for the porn watching, drug enjoying dude that he so clearly is. And his inability to be honest with you. If you could accept him for what he is, he'd probably develop some balls and stop lying to you.

Porn is fine, the drugs are not. Ditch him, drugs are a black hole that is very hard to get out of.

It doesn't sound like you should be with him.

I think it is up to him to save it. You might want to ask yourself why he is still attractive to you.

alright you don have to do a thing if he loves you that much force his hand and make him get help for BOTH addictions for porn can become an addiction and say hat if he doesn't you are through and make sure you stick to your guns or he will never believe you and then its back to drugs and porn

Actually, this is more of an issue with you. What is this 'Relationship of two years' garbage. What does that have to do with anything. The only facts that need to be considered and have anything to do with this is that he is doing Porn, Drugs and lying. The porn and drugs can be considered the same as him cheating with another woman. These two things have become more important to him than you. You are at least 3rd in his priorities of life. You are important to him but only in the role of being his 'enabler'. Your role as the enabler gives him all the support and justification for him to do these things. He needs you to provide all the things that would take away from his drug and porn using time. The only other factor in this is the fact that he is lying to you. This is a major trust issue in that you will never be able to trust him in anything he ever says or does in his life or yours. You will live your life never knowing if he is truthful or not. The talk about people earning back your trust is a bunch of garbage. Once trust is lost, it is lost forever. Telling yourself that you can now trust someone who lost it is nothing more than a form of denial. Well, there is one other factor to consider. When making love is he making love to you, or is he making love to himself by rerunning the porn images in his mind? Nobody can be responsable for your life. Only you can decide what you want, but using the two year relationship garbage as a factor will take you on a path that will only result in a life of misery.

you have to decide if you can forgive all 3 of those. forgiving lieing is common, heck women often expect the mane to lie to save their feelings "does this dress make me look fat?" I would hope you could forgive (not accept) porn... it is a weakness but seriously, keep it in perspective. drugs will destroy him and everyone attached to him. so if he does not want to get off the drugs say goodbuy tonight.