Besides name-calling, what statements would a psychological abuser say to break someone's soul?
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roserose100
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No one will want you No one loves you You cant make it without me
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You are worthless You are benethe me How can you make someone else happy when you are not happy with yourself.
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You re good for nothing. You will never find someone who'll want to love you. You embarrass me. I hate everything about you. The list is endless .. unfortunately!
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you are good for nothing it is your fault you are not beautiful everybody hates you i am ashamed of you .........
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Bait and switch..promising one thing and not delivering..or promising a cadillac and delivering a pogo stick..never living up to any promise..always breaking his word. Combine that with unexpected outbursts of anger for no reason. ...that would surely do it:(
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Tell them that their family and friends don't like them or want them around.
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For some reason, they all seem to like to say, "No one will ever love you as much as I do." Run if you hear those words! Psychological abusers find the things that are nearest and dearest to you, observe the things that delight you, and then attack those things. They find devious ways of doing it. There's no predicting what they will say or do exactly because if varies from one victim to the next. The basic, bottom line is, they say and do things that a person who actually loved you and cared for your welfare would never do. Then they tell you it is because they love you. Beware!
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Make them believe that people around them disrepect them and do not like them.
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just from my parents alone: my child wouldn't have made a 99.she would have made 100%, you are not my child, I never wanted you, I don't want you to be my child anymore. In relationships: you can't make it without me, you are nothing without me, your family hates you, you are worthless piece of shi*, why were you born?, etc. The list is endless
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Well, it can be almost anything that puts you down as a human being. The actual cycle runs that they build you up and put you down. A period of humiliation and tearing down and then I'm so sorry I love you, etc. Anything along the lines of " WITH OUT ME YOU'D BE" and you can fill in the rest with practically anything. Some people don't actualy realize how harmful this can be as it was there childhood experiences that this is echoing upon.
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Oops! Sorry! Hehehe.
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i am the only one in the world who will put up with you your family hates you your friends are slagging you off no one finds you good looking your ugly you are not good at anything you will always be a nobody
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Is that your head or did your neck throw up.
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Are you wondering if you're in an abusive relationship? If your soul feels broken its because it is - the words abusers use are not the main issue tho' they follow a pattern. What's important is how you feel. Trust your feelings.
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The only person that can break your soul is the devil. if someone else has control of your soul then your not a strong being and don't understand that other people have no control of you or your feelings
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You should look up "narcisstic rage" -- The narcissistic individual, or the normal individual at this phase of development, is prone to intense anger, an irrational rage, which may take the form of acute explosions or be chronic and vengeful. This narcissistic rage is provoked by the slightest—real or imagined—narcissistic insult, such as not being seen, understood, or appreciated, in the way one feels he deserves. Narcissistic envy may arise; one hates anyone who has (or seems to have), a rich inner life or external acclaim and feels pain about not having what the other has. (The Point of Existence) So we can see it as a normal reaction to hurt. However, it has special characteristics because the narcissistic hurt is different from other types of emotional pain. The fact that this hurt is very vulnerable, and opens up to an emptiness signifying the dissolution of identity, imbues the reactive anger with an intensity and hardness rarely seen in other kinds of anger. (The Point of Existence, pg 324)
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Doing mean comparisons of people when one person could never look or be like the other.
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To tell somenbody they are "their ow problem" making someone feel worthless.
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