by pantygirl on November 30th, 2008

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I want to watch my husband suck another mans dick. how do i get him to do this?

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  • by Charlie Harris on March 12th, 2009

    Charlie Harris

    I can't speak for other couples. I guess we're in a tiny minority of couples. I'm ten years older than my beautiful wife who was innocent and somewhat naive, when we married a little over ten years ago. I wanted to watch her making love with another man. She was not quite twenty-five and she told me, "To forget it." She thought I wanted an excuse to be with other women. My compulsion was so strong, for lack of a better term, that I continued to encourage and implore her to comply with my requests. We'd become members of an 'alternative nightclub' and she'd begun to meet other young wives who were involved in a number of different sexual situations. Along the way, an attractive young blond housewife seduced my wife and she responded very passionately. Slowly, she began making out with other guys. We were with several couples and she'd be with the wife first and then she began to get play around with her husband. I don't mean sexual intercourse, just oral sex, but this made her want more. We're very athletic and are both Scuba Instructors. We were diving in Cozumel, MX when she told me that from that time forward, I would swallow my own semen! I thought she was joking, but that night she satisfied me orally and then she kissed me. I eagerly kissed her and was shocked when she flooded my mouth with my cum. I responded negatively, of course, but she continued to demanded that, 'I swallow.' It came to the point that if I wanted her to pleasure me in this manner, she made me agree 'in advance' to swallow. After some time, I began to expect and I guess, look forward to her it. Then, one night we were with another couple and she sucked the husband's dick. I didn't think too much about it until she kissed me afterwards and filled my mouth with his semen. I was surprised, but it was funny because I became excited, too. Soon, this became a pattern with her and whenever she satisfied another guy, I knew I'd swallow his cum. As a result, when our extra curricular activities progressed it wasn't a great leap for me to satisfy another man. My wife was already 'bi' and she sort of converted me. I preferred her or another girl, but today I find another guy just as exciting. As for my wife, she becomes excited humiliating me in this manner and she freely admits, "she enjoys dominating me because somewhere along the way she'd determined that I would ultimately submit to her." She was right.

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  • by Charlie Harris on March 10th, 2009

    Charlie Harris

    I think the original wife's proposal was great and my wife used that technique with me. At first, I was a little surprised, but then I guess it turned me on, too. I told her that, "I wasn't gay," and she said that it didn't have anything to do with that. I sucked her friend's dick and then she had sex with him. We repeated this scenario with two other friends of hers and then I realized how much I enjoyed satisfying another guy and how much my wife enjoyed sex with other men. We do this three or four times a month, now.

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  • by AH7 on October 14th, 2009

    AH7

    I agree! I absolutely love watching men sucking cock. It is certainly a huge bonus thrown in with MFMs. I also think it's sexy beyond belief seeing men fuck each other. Where's my vibrator! Tell your husband you want to find a third for MFMs.

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  • by henryR on September 12th, 2009

    henryR

    I wish my wife was like you - this is a dream of mine. I have never been with a man but I fantasise about sucking a cock and swallowing the resulting load of cum...... mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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  • by iwantamouthfull on October 18th, 2010

    iwantamouthfull

    My ex invited me over and started to come on to me. She did a sexy strip tease and started playing with my cock and teasing me. After about an hour of teasing she told me that she wanted me to do something for her and ofcourse at that point I agreed to do anything that she wanted. That is when another guy came in to the room stroking an eight inch cock. My ex told me to get on my knees and blow him. As I just stood there in shock she reminded me that I had agreed to do anything. She then forcefully told me to get on my knees where I belonged or they would make me. I dropped to my knees in front of the guy as my ex smiled and took his cock and rubbed it across my lips and all over my face. She reached down and squeezed my balls causing me to open my mouth at which time he shoved his cock in. I started to gag when he had about half of it in my mouth and i tried to push him away. This made my ex mad and she ordered me to put my hands behind my back so that she could tie me up. Once she had my hands tied the guy grabbed my head and started to ruthlessly fuck my mouth untill he came. When he did cum he pulled out so that just the head was in my mouth and shot about half of it in to my mouth and shot the rest of it all over my face. Ofcourse they made me swallow it. After a few minutes they took me in to the bed room and made me lie on my back on the bed with my head hanging off the bed.My ex said this way he would be able to slide his entire cock down my throat. After about a half hour of choking and gagging he got all eight inches down my throat. I thought that he would finally cum and get it over with but my ex said that she wanted to see him fuck me in the ass. She told me to get in position and I rolled over on mt stomach knowing that I had no choice. My ex then told me to roll over and lift my legs so that he could fuck me like the bitch that i am. So there I lay on my back with him holding my legs in the air pounding all eight inches up my ass. When he was ready to cum he pulled out and straddled my chest and began stroking his cock over my face. I don't know why but I opened my mouth and waited for him to cum wherever he wanted to. My ex got a big kick out of this. He finally came all over my face and in my mouth.

    Afterwards they left me there while they went and took a shower. When they returned my ex handed me a butt plug and told me to shove it up my ass, which I did. She then told me to get dressed and lie on the floor on my back. The guy then straddled my chest and made me suck his ball while he jacked off and came all over my face. My ex then told me that it was time for me to go so I left with the butt plug uo my ass and cum all over my face.

    Although this was extremely humiliating when she called and told me to come over about a week later I did. This time she had one of her friend over who wanted to see me get fucked. Her friend had brought a black guy that she worked with. I spent the afternoon being subjected to his huge black cock. They chose to humiliate me firther by having him tie me up before he made me his bitch.

    If some guy tied to get me to suck cock I would kick his ass but if my ex calls again I will go to her knowing that I am going to wind up on my knees with a mouth full of cock.

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  • by Anonymous on January 29th, 2010

    Anonymous

    My wife and I were watching deliverance in a theater and when the infamous squeal like a pig scene came on she was aroused and reached into my pants and found a rock hard dick. We had a long talk and an even longer great sex life. About 3 months after this happened we walked into a pub and sat at the bar and ordered a drink. I was dragged off my bar stool and into the back room, stripped naked and fucked on the pool table. One of them forced me to suck his dick and there was my wife standing in the entrance way with a big huge smile on her face. She had set the whole thing up.
    I was fucked and sucked cock repeatedly through out the afternoon. If a woman had asked me to suck another guys dick I would have gladly obliged her, but this is how it came to be for me. The thought of sucking a guys dick lingers in the back of even the straightest of straights minds. Curiosity is a normal human trait. You just need to nurture that curiosity to the point where he must know.
    Try talking to him about all the really good things about sucking dick. How it feels on your tongue, the delicious saltiness, the warmth and smoothness, how it is so hot to see a guys eyes roll back when he cums in your mouth etc.
    Men are visual creatures so porn helps also.

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  • by webpirate on July 17th, 2009

    webpirate

    All my wife had to do was tell me she wanted to watch me suck another mans dick, I had a suck friend from age 9 untill 38, she has no clue how many times she has tasted his dick when she kissed me after spending the night camping out, so I invited him over for some sex fun, he was more than happy to play, my wife and I were in a 69 andI was watching him pound her pussy, he would pull out every once in a while and let me suck him, I loved the taste of my wifes pussy on another mans dick, well after about 2 hours of trying every position we could think of he came in her and she nelt over my face and watched me lick every drop of his cum from her pussy, strange thing is i was never able to eat my friends cum untill that night, maybe i got off on my wife watching me suck dick and eat cum

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  • by jackwill on January 16th, 2009

    jackwill

    Do what my wife did to get me to do that. She promised me she would do anything I wanted for 3 months and lived up to the deal. She really had a great time watching me suck her friend's dick she must have cum 15 times. She "directed" me throughout the...whatever we call it...session and her friend really enjoyed it too.

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  • by sunshine on December 3rd, 2009

    sunshine

    Ask him if he would be into it. You never know. If he knows it would turn you on he might just go for it. Offer to eat some pussy while he watches. You askes a while ago, did it happen?

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  • by Anonymous on July 20th, 2009

    Anonymous

    First, have him lick and suck your vibrator after you get off with it in your pussy. Second, tell him that it turns you on. Third, tell him to suck it more and you will suck his cock. Forth, do this for a few weeks and then ask him if would like you to get strap on for him to suck while you 69. Fifth, ask him if would like to suck the real thing.

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  • by vegasbill on May 16th, 2009

    vegasbill

    Tell him you'll let him watch you make out with a girl if he agrees to suck her bf's dick. It worked for my wife when she asked me!

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  • by Maad Mama5250 on January 16th, 2009

    Maad Mama5250

    I agree with the tell him to have a threesome and than have him lick your pussy juice off his cock. or just tell him you would like it. If you cant be straight up with your man why yall married.if my man wasnt the freak he is we wouldn't be engaged.

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  • by crazy4satin on January 3rd, 2009

    crazy4satin

    Hi pantygirl,
    have you gotten him to go along with your request yet? you might try just talking him into a mmf threesome and then get the other guy to suck him off. that might relax him a bit to the idea.

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  • by marksfp on February 4th, 2011

    marksfp

    sorry but any man sucking another mans dick is gay or at least bisexual, now don't suggest i said there is anything wrong with it, but i am 100% straight and no matter how many women i would be allowed to fuck, i wouldnt suck another man off so if its good for the goose and good for the gander, then why the hell not? but if you are married to a man like me, you've got zero hope, period! So am i saying this to bag out gay men, certainly not, im all for it if its your thing, and i really do mean that, im simply saying that seen as theres no way in hell youd convince me to do it, perhaps, just maybe, this should be discussed as at least an idea, before getting anywhere near marriage, as i would hate to think that a couple would call each other life partners, but be afraid to discuss there life desires with each other, ladies, i'm not saying you ask a man on the first date if he'd ever consider it, but don't wait till marriage if the idea is important to you, only to find he refuses no matter what the bribe. Anyhow just my two cents worth, best of luck to you all, and make sure no one gets hurt!

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  • by shagdad on October 12th, 2010

    shagdad

    ladies, if your man is willing to have bisexual sex for you; don't be mean about it later when you get angry at him, and don't try to emasculate him. if he knows you will always love him no matter what; then he may be more willing to give in. but on the other hand; don't be suprised if he ask you for certain sexual favors either. if you are willing to give to get, i don't see it being a big deal.

    if i were to have a bi threesome with my lady, i would want the same in return also. if the two in this relationsihp can build an trust as a life couple, and love one another first; then this type of naughty fun should bring them closer together.

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  • by Eric_C on September 30th, 2010

    Eric_C

    I would love to suck another man's penis in front of my wife. The thought of a guy ejaculating semen into my mouth is a huge turn on for me.

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  • by hall on September 10th, 2010

    hall

    i always suck my wifes boy friends cock. she always order me to suck therir friends cock and ass and anal. she have a lots of boyfriends. most of them have a big cock and big ass. she was keep me as her slave. i am alwasys sit under her feet. and lick her feet. she was my boss and mistress. she enjoying her sex life with lots of guys infront of me. and she play with me for her sexual fantasys. she ask me to drink their friends cum. first i am very hesitate to do that, but now it was very tasty.

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  • by michellenaked on August 14th, 2010

    michellenaked

    Lock him in a chastity device for a few weeks. He'll be so worked up he'll suck a cock just to get out of the chastity device. Videotape him sucking cock without telling him and you can force him to suck and swallow anytime you want.

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  • by Old man down the road on December 2nd, 2009

    Old man down the road

    Just ask him to do it for you. From what I have seen and from my own experience a lot of guys want to suck a cock and they want their S/Os to watch and maybe even coach. I know if I was married to you and you asked me to do that I would LOVE IT

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  • by bijamiue on November 28th, 2009

    bijamiue

    Tell him no more pussy until he sucks some cock for you!.......It may take awhile but he will submit and suck that cock for you eventually.
    xoxo
    cocksucker

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  • by ElmerFudd on November 19th, 2009

    ElmerFudd

    We should get together. :P

    I've been bugging my wife to have a MMF for a long time but she refuses to. The thought of watching her with another man excites me, and the thought of giving another man oral sex excites me even more!

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  • by lillys_world on September 12th, 2009

    lillys_world

    Just ask him to do it. Most guys are curious anyway.

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  • by No1Uno on July 3rd, 2009

    No1Uno

    First, get a couple gay or bi (M-F-M) porn movies and watch them alone (to see which ones YOU like better). When you find one you especially like, let him 'catch' you watching it. Let him know - or better yet SEE how much it turns you on to see guys sucking guys. You could even tell him that one of your girl friends/co-workers told you about watching the movie and that she thought it was really hot to see two guys 'doing that'.

    If you're lucky, he'll take the hint, but... he might be totally turned off by the whole idea, too. You know your guy better than any of us do, so use your own instincts....

    Mark

    P.S., I wish my wife had this fantasy....

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  • by ilvoral on June 24th, 2011

    ilvoral

    WOW this topic is so hot. and so many hot responses too. I love it.

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  • by Tattoed one on May 12th, 2011

    Tattoed one

    I wish my wife would ask me that.. I am currently looking for a bi couple. I want sooooo bad to suck a man's cock after he takes it out of a womens pussy. My wife would probably devorce me if I asked her to do something like that!! Lol

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  • by Cocklover1 on March 1st, 2011

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    It all backfired for my wife!!....For years we had a liberated sex life, and the boundaries got pushed back further and further.....one night I used a flesh like vibrator on her..about 9"...She wanted to lick her juices off it...so I offered it to her eager mouth, I was kissing her neck, ears, cheek....and eventually her lips....she had the 9" in her mouth as I did this, so my own lips was brushing it,....my wife was turned on by this and offered it to me.....i used my tongue to lick around the bell-end at the same time as my wife.....eventually I took over and started to engulf the vibrator with my mouth, my wife was screaming with lust, and I must admit I was harder then ever.....after that we agreed that we should do it for real, so found a young stud.....he was well over 10".....and after lots of fun with my wife, I lay on my back as my wife leaned over my face while I licked her pussy, the young stud was shafting her pussy from behind and i could feel his cock on my tongue......I heard my wife say "Cum in fellas mouth".....he pulled out and started to fuck my mouth, when he came I thought I was going to drown!!!....my wife was ecstacic....so was I, when my wife went the bathroom, I said that I would like to suck that beast sometime on my own.....I now meet the young buck once a week, without my wifes knowledge and not only suck him....but his equally as big cousin.......to be honest...I LOVE COCK NOW....

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  • by xray0012867@hotmail.com on January 13th, 2011

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    by pantygirl on January 2nd, 2011
    pantygirl

    Ok, I have received a lot of responses asking me if I have got my husband to suck another mans dick and I have to say Yes I finally got him to do this. It was amazing to watch. Ok now I know your going to ask how I got him to do this right? This is how. My girlfriend told me about this website www.naughty-store.com and told me to buy a life like dildo. I bought the Naturals, 7in thick dong with balls. So this is what I did. The next time that we had sex while he was on top of me, I slowly grabbed the dildo and started sucking on it. This drove him crazy. I could tell cause he really started to grind into me. Then I tool the dildo out of my mouth and then put it on his lips. I looked at him and told him to suck it for me please. So he did. Now girls you have to act really excited that he did this, which for me I didn't have to act. Over the next couple of months we did this and he did it for me because he knew I like it. Then I slowly introduced panties into the deal. This was hot. I told him I wanted to role play. I later went back the website and bought a strap on. When he got down on his knees the first time to suck my dick wearing panties, I knew that the next step was to introduce one of my friends into the picture and that he wouldn't have a problem with it at this point. So men if you want to do this, just go to the website and buy your girlfriend a realistic dildo from the website and start sucking. Have fun. Bye

    Read more: I want to watch my husband suck another mans dick. how do i get him to do this? | Answerbag http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1119908#ixzz1AviSRKzj


    Was this a one time thing or did you get him to do this for you on a regular basis

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  • by chowdownonme on April 5th, 2010

    chowdownonme

    get a good mmf vid, have a drink with him, sit down and watch. when it cums on, go ohh, I didn't know that was on here but I think it is hot, and go for his dick. you would be surprised how many married guys want to suck dick, but are afraid to say so. maybe if you give him an easy way to say yes?

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  • by Cat on November 22nd, 2009

    Cat

    Begin by letting him know you find this a turnon and that you won't think he's less a man for doing it. Most all guys think watching two women together is red hot... there is no logical reason why two men playing should be any different.

    All the other advice about starting with toys, etc is good too.

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  • by Becomingmymom on October 17th, 2009

    Becomingmymom

    As others on here have suggested,beginning mfms would provide the perfect opportunity. Come home with a strapon and announce you want to work toward having mfms. See how he reacts to the strapon. If he learns to love it, the next step is finding a partner.

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  • by starved4it on October 16th, 2009

    starved4it

    I agree with a lot of the other writers ... just ask him. But do it during sexual foreplay, or while he's getting into watching you suck his cock. It's really hard to let go and express your more exotic sexual fantasies. The fear of rejection, anger, or belittling by our lovers is often too much to overcome, but if you're secure in your relationship and broach the subject tactfully, he should be okay with you asking ... he might not agree to it at first, but at least you're not hiding your desires anymore. And I think there are many men who would be interested and VERY willing, in the right environment, with the right guy and if he knows you're turned on by watching him do it. I just wish my wife wanted to watch me suck cock, or to share one with me ... she knows I want to, but isn't interested. Good luck!

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  • by Tim_P on August 23rd, 2010

    Tim_P

    have you even talked to your husband about this? if you did what did he say?

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  • by pam8802 on July 10th, 2010

    pam8802

    We watched a bisexual movie together where they showed several scenes with guys sucking cock and getting fucked and it turned me on and I asked my husband if he could ever do that. Eventually he said he would try and we met a nice gentleman. After going to dinner we came back to the house and i had them both strip for me and we sat and talked awhile while they played with each others dicks' It was so cute to watch them. Then I had them suck each other and the cuteness turned to erotic real fast. My husband is glad now that we do this because he sees how turned on it gets me and i believe he gets turned on now from this too. It is so hot for couples to enjoy this type of sexual activity and the ladies can only get spoiled by it lol.

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  • by Anonymous on July 8th, 2010

    Anonymous

    I cannot think of anything as erotic as sucking cock for a woman's pleasure. If she is into it, then I am into it. The more turned on she becomes, the more turned on I become. It has escalated to out right verbal humiliation in the past and I loved it, because she loved it. I do
    not concern my self with labels such as gay, bi, etc. If you enjoy it and she enjoys it, that is all that matters. Enjoy each other.

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  • by Anonymous on June 8th, 2010

    Anonymous

    I'm curious "pantygirl" - did you ever get your husband to suck another man's dick for you ? Just curious ...

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  • by Jaime on March 3rd, 2010

    Jaime

    Unless he is gay or bi, he will not only reject your request, but he will think you do not love him. That because I would think a woman that is looking to make her boyfriend suck other men's dicks is a woman that wants to destroy ther man's identity and life.

    Only a gay or bi man would agree, as well as a straight man with little self confidence, to the point of doing anything the woman asks of him only to remain her boy friend.

    Do you think that asking my girlfriend to try LSD, rock cocaine, drugs, shows my love towards her? When you ask your man to destroy his manhood for your pleasure, you are showing your disrespect for him, and your evilness.

    If you want to have a boyfriend that sucks cocks, you better look for a gay partner or a bi boy friend. But get ready to compete with men for your man.

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  • by mjjp102 on January 26th, 2010

    mjjp102

    My wife gets off just watching me get my butt fucked by another guy

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  • by starved4it on January 11th, 2010

    starved4it

    It's interesting how many women, here and on other sites, claim they are turned on by watching men giving blow jobs. Where the hell are you all!! After having a girlfriend dump me when I suggested we share a mutual friend's cock (we were already having a threesome, with her getting the full attention of both me and my buddy ... I had agreed to this for her sake and loved it). I was curious about what it would be like to suck cock because I loved watching her suck me off and she was so obviously turned on by it. It thrilled me to watch her and, just watching her suck off my friend made me cum ... so, it seemed like a natural extension of what we were already doing. She screamed at me that I was a, "FUCKING FAG!", and told me to never come near her again. It was a shock, and prevented me from even considering asking about it for many years. In college, I did an anonymous survey of college students for a sociology class and found two males (an admitted gay and a bisexual) and one female (very experimental and bisexual too) who felt that watching men giving blow jobs was exciting ... out of over 200 respondents. This was around 1983, before AIDS got really going, so I discount that as the reason ... so what the hell changed in 27 years?! I think it's great, but I'm still in shock. I just wish my own wife were interested. She IS interested in a threesome with me and another guy (We've had two with other women; though she didn't go down on them, she was turned on watching me do it and kissed them and sucked and massaged their breasts while I fucked them, but no cunnilingus for her) and at least she hasn't kicked me out while screaming "FAG!" at me for suggesting she might enjoy watching me suck another man's cock; but alas it's not going to happen. As to the original question, all she'd have to do, to get me to do it, would be to ask. Good luck ... I hope it works out, or has worked out, for you.

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  • by Mrmike on December 8th, 2009

    Mrmike

    my wife used to tell me how she was in the shower and when she couldnt cum from masturbating she'd think about me sucking another guy's cock. i thought it was messed up in the beginning but we'd be in bed and she'd talk more and more about it and i'd be fingering her while we talked and she never got so wet. At first she did as someone else here suggested, had me suck a dildo after she pulled it out of her and after a while she told me she NEEDED to see me sucking another guy - she even held out with sex for quite a while. Anyway while traveling she proposed we find someone at bar who was drunk and see if we could convince him, she said if i did it and dint like it she'd never ask again. We met someone at bar who was real drunk and she proposed it to him, we went up to our hotel and she pulled his pants down, and had me kneel infront of him and then she stood behind and held my head like she was forcing me and said i had no choice (though it would help me do it) and i ended up just doing it.

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  • by sosochka17 on November 18th, 2009

    sosochka17

    my wife told me to do it a lot of times, and i am craizy about, also she told her frends to fuck my ass... now i can to go to the end throu this .... it is !!!!!!

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  • by sunshine on November 16th, 2009

    sunshine

    So has it happened yet? If not you might simply ask him if he would suck a guy off explaining how much it would get you off. Keep in mind that he might ask you to get gang banged in return.

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  • by Anonymous on November 14th, 2009

    Anonymous

    I would love to suck another mans dick. I would want him to cum in my mouth and then spit it in my wifes mouth and watch her swallow it. I happen to think it is hot.

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  • by boyoffundy on October 30th, 2009

    boyoffundy

    Personally if the wife goes down on the girl, i'll suck the cock.

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  • by Anonymous on October 12th, 2009

    Anonymous

    Life just isn't FAIR ! You WANT to watch your husband suck another mans dick and I can't GET my wife willing to watch ME suck another mans dick ! It just ain't FAIR !

    I agree with some of the OTHER answers - first you need to ASK him to do it for you ! He MAY have even thought about it himself but was afraid to tell YOU ! Even if he HASN'T thought about it ( and really isn't interested in it ) he MAY be willing to do it for YOU just for YOUR pleasure. You didn't mention your age but since I've become curious I've done a little research - a surprisingly high percentage of men over 40 have either already DONE it OR become CURIOUS about doing it ! If he is under 40 you can at least "plant the seed" that you WANT it - and as time goes by he probably WILL become more receptive to the idea - that is IF he's not ready to do it for you NOW !

    I'll try to be brief about MY situation - it was after my ex-wife and I split up a mutual bisexual girlfriend and I began seeing more of one another. ( My ex-wife and I were into the swinging lifestyle and she was a frequent participant in our swinging activities. ) We has a pretty regular foursome with another couple and one night - out of the blue after she and I had sex alone - she told me she and the other woman wanted to watch me suck the other guy's cock. I was in my late 30's - had never thought about it - had NO interest in it - and flatly refused ! She got VERY angry with me and told me the REASON she was so angry was that she was SURE I would have done it for my ex-wife. I thought about her comment later and decided she was probably RIGHT !

    I probably would have for SEVERAL reasons - first of all I truly loved her - and when you truly LOVE someone it becomes much more difficult to determine what you ARE - and are NOT willing to DO for them. Secondly she had brough ME so much pleasure I don't think I would have missed an opportunity to pleasure HER - regardless of how I might have felt about the idea. Thirdly our whole swinging lifestyle was based on sexual exploration and fulfilling one another's fantasies. I think I would have considered it just another avenue of sexual exploration and fulfillment of her desire.

    I began to fantasize she HAD asked me to do it - I had AGREED to do it for her - and she had set it up. The strange thing about my fantasy was that the thought of sucking cock didn't appeal to me anymore than it had before - it was imagining HER being turned on by watching me suck cock that got ME excited - and I found myslef getting into "performing" for her ! The MORE turned on SHE got the more turned on I got - the better I "performed" - the MORE turned on she got - you get the picture - we fed off of each others arousal to help me finish him off ! ( Which REALLY turned her on - in the fantasy, that it ! )

    That was about 20 years ago - the fantasy became SO intense I actually called my ex-wife - told her about it - and asked her to FULFILL it ! She was into another relationship and didn't want to do it with HIM ( she didn't want to open the door to the possibility of swinging with HIM ) and she didn't want to "cheat" on him by doing it with some other guy ! ( Although she DID admit the thought of it turned her ON! ) I'm re-married now - I love my wife VERY much - I told her about my fantasy BEFORE we got married - that I wasn't gay and wasn't even SURE I was bisexual ( I won't know THAT until I actually experience it - and even if I really AM bisexual it would ONLY be "orally bi" - I have NO interest in ANY other form of male / male interaction at ALL ! ) - she "simulates" it for me using her dildo ! She just won't take it to the next level by actually DOING it with me ( we "simulate" sucking cock TOGETHER - which has by FAR become my FAVORITE fantasy ! ) - even though the simulation turns us BOTH on ! Like I said - life just ain't FAIR !

    Anyway - I wish you well in YOUR pursuit - and hoepfully he'll DO it for you ! If not but you "plant the seed" now he may - in TIME - be WILLING to do it for you - even if it's only for YOUR pleasure ! Then again - HE may have a fantasy he wants YOU to fulfill and you can negotiate a "trade" - you'll do HIS fantasy for HIM if he'll do YOUR fantasy for YOU ! Best of luck to you two ...

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  • by Lets Go Sharks on June 14th, 2009

    Lets Go Sharks

    Ask him. If my wife wanted me to i'd consider it. shes licked my ass and fingered another girl for me.I've always wanted to do a threesome with her and a she-male.

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  • by 08Busa on May 20th, 2009

    08Busa

    Tell him how much you would like it.

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  • by anonymous on March 10th, 2009

    anonymous

    How far have you gotten with him so far? Whats the most you have come close to doing it? Will he suck on a dildo before you insert it?

    My wife and I are currently working on getting a dildo up my ass while she sucks. The key is arousal, if he is worked up, you can get him to do anything.

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  • by joechef8 on March 10th, 2009

    joechef8

    i would just ask him,i wish my wife would ask...she is very vanilla

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  • by Larry on December 15th, 2008

    Larry

    Ask him, he may want to do it but afraid to ask you - or - Tell him that you want to see him lick your pussy juices off someones cock.

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  • by Braman on November 30th, 2008

    Braman

    You must lick other other women pussy first be4 you can asked him to suck other man's dick.

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