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As long as you are honest about your feelings and expectations, it's not cruel to stay with him, especially if you genuinely do love him. Don't lead him into believing something thats not true. Make sure he knows where you stand on the topic. He may even see it as a challenge, and work harder to persuade you...and he may even be successful!
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Fact from fiction, truth from diction. It may not be cruel but it might be selfishness on your part if you don't tell him that you do not love him enough to take that leap. You need to ask yourself if it is just him, or any guy you do not want to be tethered to? And it is usually the guys who have commitment issues. Is you you think you might moss out on “The One”? If so, then he is not the one and should now it. If he wants to stay or go find his “One” at least he knows it is not you.
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