So what's the problem? Are you happy? that's what you need to be asking your self not questioning your mental status. In this day and age I believe you are being very smart, there are sex toys that you can buy and just fall in love with no one can make you feel as good as you can make your self feel in the long run you will be better of physically, mentally and financially try it you seem to like it!!!

its well known that the sexual activity, moreso the ejaculative process, is a natural discplacement activity for our bodies energies which are not spent during other areas of our lifestyles. The body needs to release these energy's ( commonly known as pent up, or even,supressed emotions and in your case maybe 'stress'). The human body uses the sexual drive,(libido) to move us toward achieving the innate tendancy to displace. This finding is aside our predisposition to reproduce of course. The point I am trying to make here is that not engaging in sex with another person, from a biological perspective, is not a nescessity. Indeed, my friend, as long as you release those 'unspent energies' ( stress')perhaps, by exercise, or continued masturbation, otherwise known as 'flicking your bean', then the abscence of sex would not be 'bad' as you put it......Atleast From a direct biological perspective. Nevertheless, the psycholgical self, may well be affected adversely. Arguabley, in this instance, the psychological state could, in some cases, lead to the biological construct to be affected negatively - albiet not implicitely. Put simply, not having a regular jump is niether here nor there. just as long as the 'shooting the muck'stage, when used as a displacement activity, is carried out. really hope this helps. Mr Andy Beaton

sex is very mentally and physically and emoyionally healthy for men and women so u must do it frequent because its stress relieving while masturbating can relieve for a little time and then u become stressed from masturbation so try to make sex frequently