I got a minus point about answering”spanking /grounding child”, what is your opinion pls. The link is: http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4661986
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Sirus1
ANSWERS: 11
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I didn't see anything wrong with your answer I mean it boils down to the personal preference of the parent and the manner in which the parent picks the method of punishment/discipline
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No offense meant, but this is a trend I am not loving. I got DRed is that fair? What do you think? Et cetera. We all get DR'ed. It happens. Personally, I just leave my ratings box in my profile unchecked and that keeps me happy and sane. To answer your question, I think your answer was just fine. :) +6
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Don't take it to hear. Its happened to all of us here sooner or later. We give our honest opinions on certain topics and those who don't agree with us downrate us though our opinion is valid.
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We all get negative points. Don't take it personally.
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The only way to avoid getting negative points is to never ask or answer a question seeking opinions. If getting a single -1 bothers you stay away from politics, religion, homosexuality and anything to do with bringing up children.
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I will not take as personal... everyone has different oppinions and many just click that buttom not even care if that was a good answer or not... I got a bad comment once just because I use the frase "maybe wrong" when I meant to say "what could be right to you maybe be wrong to others and we must respect everyones oppinion". Any ways, you endup with good credit there... Keep participating.
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I got a minus too, I dont believe in spanking, I think its terrible, I guess a child abuser gave me a minus, oh well!
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I get DR 2 or 3 times a day. Sometimes I make silly/humorous answers, sometimes i say things that i expect will offend people. Any answer to a religious or political question is bound to offend someone and as children are little demigods there is a risk there. BTW as well sa downrating for disagreeing, some seem to downrate at random, all meaningless.
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Minuses happen, that's the way it goes anytime you take the risk of having an opinion or even sharing facts with others in a public forum. Develop a thicker skin. You'll need it. Yes, most of the people around here can be nice and listen to both sides of issues, but many just are quick with the ratings as it is their right as well
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I've gotten DR several times, some I thought maybe coming while others made no sense at all .........just my thoughts & or opinion. Try not to pay to much attention to it & just keep asking the questions you want to & answering with you opinion. That will be the best thing for you to do.++++
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Don't worry about it - if you think it's ok to uprate someone when you agree, then don't forget that it's ok to downrate if you disagree. A rating is just an opinion - obviously someone disagreed or did not find value in your answer.
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