Do you ever feel like nobody likes you, or can relate to you because you're so weird and awkward? Do you feel socially inept? Do you feel like there are multiple sides of yourself and you don't quite feel comfortable in any one type of lifestyle?
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Honey Bunny
ANSWERS: 6
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Nope.
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Yes Yes Yes and Yes. I have felt like this for a while now. I only have two true friends. I have many acquaintances. I have real trouble making friends and being close to people. I have been stabbed in the back so many times. I feel like I ALWAYS say the wrong thing in social situations. Sometimes I feel like everyone hates me. I wish for once I could go somewhere and feel comfortable and make friends and be happy but I dunno if it'll ever happen. I guess I'm just not one of those people who can have like a million friends and be liked by everyone.
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I used to, until I started being more interested in and caring about other people, rather than worrying that much about what they thought of me.
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Well, yeah. I know I am. But looking at the bright side of being socially inept, I don't have to look like other people, act like other people, dress like other people. I'm not burdened by the constraints of "fitting in". I'm just excluded from them.
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I went through a phase kind of like that when I was making the transition from young adulthood, when your not considered college student, to being an adult, when its time for your career & entering into the work-force. Although I never had a problem making friends, I started going through this awkard stage where I didnt know who I related to anymore. I had alot of thoughts & ideas about alot things, but I wasnt quite at the point where I knew how to say things that made sense or how I really felt about certain things in life. And I did start feeling socially disconnected. But as I had more experiences in life, & had a better feel for where I stood, I didnt think about if others were judging me or how they felt about me. And I guess it was because I became very interested & respectful of what others had to say or did, I stopped focusing on myself. I naturally started being the person I was & everything else fell into place.
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I feel like this right now and i am 23 years old.....This feeling sucks.
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